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Drama with the Lesbian (10)


1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-04 09:34 ID:Heaven

Hi all. I really need some advice on my current situation.

I'm a lesbian, and I met a girl on OkCupid about half a year ago. I wasn't interested in her romantically, but we watched anime together online every week. Suddenly, about three months ago, she began flirting. I was entirely taken off-guard. She's really, really pretty, popular, socially normal-ish, and out of my league. I hadn't even considered the possibility of being with her, but when I realized that it was possible, I quickly fell for her, hard. I flirted back, of course, and she asked me to go on a date with her a few weeks later. We live only an hour from each-other, so I drove to see her and had the best time of my life. We met offline again a few days later, but we met at her house and I felt really awkward around her family. After that, she began straying, and told me a couple of days before Christmas that she didn't want to date again and just wanted to be friends.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-04 10:43 ID:VTebqMdi

Well, I wouldn't call the other girl a "bitch" (what has she done wrong), but for sure I also wouldn't waste such an opportunity to get closer to her. Nevertheless, from what she says, you have quite a bit of work in front of you, starting from understanding what she is afraid of.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-05 02:48 ID:4b6xMhJ5

Three way lesbian rape tiem.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-05 19:28 ID:np1i9PiH

OP here. The date went really well. So well, in fact, that she invited me back to her place afterwards. We cuddled and watched anime. It was great. But still, she's seeing the other girl.

What should I do? Should I just try to go with the flow or actively push for her?

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-05 21:02 ID:xUW/QMY8

I think that since you are smitten for the girl, you should go for it. It won't be easy, it may be painful, but perhaps you will win her over. I don't see as yet a reason to stop.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-05 22:19 ID:oK4TT97L

I think this chick is fucking stupid. She goes on a great date with you, and then hooks up with another chick a couple days later and is getting into the relationship way too seriously for them having only been together a few weeks and dealing with her emo bullshit.

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7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-06 21:41 ID:Heaven

>>6

Girls are suckers for emo bullshit. Sex 'em up, drag them into being all emotional over you or anything, really, and bam, hooks are in, they dote, and you win by being a loser.

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8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-07 20:18 ID:aQhPCZG4

honestly if she's already gone out with you a few times, and its been great and is suddenly with someone else then you should move on and find someone who's not going to pull that crap on you.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-12 08:01 ID:By5MuRiO

If she's into suicidal chicks maybe she's too much of a drama llama to keep as a target.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-18 13:44 ID:/7C8j6ru

>>8

This. You deserve to be treated better than the way this girl's treated you. It's hard, but try to use the idea of real happiness to create resolve to find that girl that's going to treat you right (and to get over this one).