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never kissed a girl (16)

1 Name: cain : 2009-01-08 01:19 ID:JhWGjZil

okay..... well i NEVER kissed a girl in my entire life.... and im totally ashamed of it. should i be?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-08 03:43 ID:hw448th+

If you're under the age of 22, no, you shouldn't. If it's so important that you are ashamed that you haven't yet, maybe you're not trying hard enough!

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-08 04:08 ID:FaWM41jY

Actually, even if you're over 22, you shouldn't be ashamed of it. Just let things develop at their own pace.

4 Name: random : 2009-01-08 05:16 ID:Bpb4rO8+

i'm a girl, age 19 going on 20
had one serious boyfriend
never had my first kiss yet

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5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-08 06:37 ID:/d4Z1Ryh

maybe he's trying too hard?

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-08 08:50 ID:JhWGjZil

well my guy friends would tease me about it saying that your first kiss is the most important. and thats were im confused... why is it that important?

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-08 12:04 ID:7AVOiQCZ

It's not the first, but the first that matters that is important.

Same thing for making love.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-08 20:08 ID:JhWGjZil

ahh so now im interested not to be wierd but is your first kiss like amazing? what does it like feel like?

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-09 00:52 ID:vAcvf3M0

My first kisses were nothing special. My first kiss that mattered totally ignited me, an I could not sleep that night. The kiss was unexpected, warm and soft. I will never forget it, even if it only lasted a second.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-09 10:21 ID:EAIHVcCC


Nah, it's more like -every time- that matters is important.

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-09 20:24 ID:JhWGjZil

its funny. my friend described his first kiss as a sucton cup feeling on your lips. can your first kiss be with a regular friend or no? does the guy or girl start?

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-09 22:59 ID:7AVOiQCZ

Yeah, you're probably right about that...

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-13 22:33 ID:JhWGjZil

but heres the thing i used hang out with guys. and there so.....competitive. so thats what im used to. so as you can imagine the first kiss is huge. and if you havent... well than your just not manley enough to be in there group.

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-24 05:15 ID:6EsO1BRj

yahh its my birthday sunday. and i had my first kiss!!!!!! boooyah!

15 Name: cain : 2009-01-24 05:17 ID:6EsO1BRj

>>14 is me

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-24 18:18 ID:i1avXbz3


new poster here with a different take. clearly, the first isn't gonna be the most important, but it shouldn't be taken for granted either. and to say the first that matters is the one that's important implies kisses aren't important in general and that just shouldn't be the case. even more so with sex. I guess the issue would be whether you're the one drawing the line for yourself or you haven't drawn a line but other people just aren't interested. if it's the former, there is no shame in holding off for that special someone or whatever else you might be waiting for; I personally find it admirable. if it's the latter, no offense, I don't think it's shameful, but you might wanna change your game up a bit because something's clearly not working. oh, and I guess I should mention that I'm going on 19 this Feb and haven't kissed a girl yet either.