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I've been told that I am very open and honest, and that it is really easy to trust me. (8)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-23 20:41 ID:It33blGi

Apparently, this is a bad thing, because that permanently removes me from the set of people one would fall in love with, because it's just too easy to be friends with me.

I kind of don't want to believe that, because the consequence from that would have to be to be less open, and less honest - essentially, to lie about who I am.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-23 23:18 ID:E4HxtZJs

...because there is still a chance that someone will love you for this. Although it ranges in the 1/ or something like this.

I'm sorry dude. I'm in the same boat.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-23 23:34 ID:8DVEaMCm

I'm like that too. But remember that people are stupid. When you find someone who loves you then you'll know it wouldn't have been worth it to change.

4 Name: 1 : 2009-01-23 23:46 ID:Heaven

> remember that people are stupid

I kind of know too many great people to buy into that.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-24 10:20 ID:xHSLSzPo

My significant other is a woman who is very open, frank and honest. Basically she says exactly what she thinks, and that is a big reason why I go out with her: I don't need to worry about what she thinks or worries about, since she let's me know.

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6 Name: Daydreamer : 2009-02-07 23:49 ID:wb3sIYGw

Are you a guy or a girl?
I think that for a girl this would be an advantage, actually. Men always have trouble understanding women, because they're less direct about their feelings than men are, right?

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7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-08 04:46 ID:3wnRelJj

>>6 brings good points: better to find someone who appretiates your traits than to fight your own nature to fit the other person

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-09 04:39 ID:eN+JYOh2

If you have nothing else, just try talking about romance to the girl; I doubt you do THAT often, and she'll look at you differently.

You have more power than you know, just assert your wants in addition to caring for others.