I'm watching Boys Be... (it's an anime...look it up)...and in one episode, a guy is being taught by a girl how to land a date. The funny thing is that before, he always used reference manuals (like Dr. Phil) to determine personalities. However, with each attempt, he ends up dumped before a date ever occurs. He eventually lands that girl's friend on a date, but fails when she finds a picture of that guy and the girl. Although he didn't land the girl promised by the reference manual, he was able to start a new one with the girl who helped him out.
I think the media can be very counter productive by sending messages about how relationships should be. I had quite a few instances where I had to explain the girl I was not going to behave in certain ways she wished just to conform to her stereotyped media spoon-fed romantic ideals.
ya I think bcoz your becoming more imaginative right?!