Question...how does one approach a shy girl who they have only seen in the school and don't actually have any classes with them? The most she might know about me is my name.
I saw her sitting alone at the library as usual today, and I felt really sad at the thought of her not receiving any cards on Valentine's day, so I gave her a last-minute looseleaf paper Valentine's day card just saying "Happy Valentine's Day" with my name on it. She probably doesn't think anything of it, if anything she probably thinks its a joke so I'm hoping she just forgot it...but what do I exactly do with someone like that? Just sit down next to her at the library and go "Heeyyyy baby!"
Alright, I understand I need to go on a date somewhere with her, but a coffee shop? Really? That sounds like something out of a fucking movie or dating book. Any other ideas?
Not really. It's just a thing you say. You don't even have to go for coffee.
It's just understood. Just say, "Hey, how about we go for a coffee some time?" Or, "Hey, you know, I'd like to get to know you better. How about we go for a coffee some time?"
Dude. It's not a date unless you make into one, so don't stress so much on that. >>34 knows what it's about, mind what he said. The whole point of coffee, or something equally as simple, is that it is in fact simple. It's not over the top, it's a comfortable environment, if things go sour, it's easy enough to leave and you didn't spend all sorts of money on it, and if things go great, you can sit there and chat as long as you'd like.
just ask her out fool! the whole experiment thing is gonna fuck you over. at first she probably thought it was cute or something but if you keep bringing it up she might just think youre a total freak. and a creeper too. just ask her out. tell her something like " well to tell you the truth i just thought you were really cute, so when i walked over i came up with a weird excuse and the experiment is the first thing that came to mind .stupid right ? " then she will know you are interested and not just an ordinary stalker
Well guys, I talked to her one more time and after really thinking about it, I think I'm just gonna forget about this. In theory, a shy girl sounds so awesome, its a dream of many guys right? But after sitting there and having her start literally no conversation herself, it was kind of frustrating.
>Maybe I should show here this thread and see if it makes her freak out? Haha.
And how would that be helpful? I would find that rude and offensive. We give you input in order to help you, not for you to use our contributions to bash some shy girl.
"hi, what are you doing in the libary?"
"hi, what book are you reading?"
i always believe that when there's a cute little shy girl the most appropriate thing to do is to fap, fap, fap in front of her. then the shyness is gone
Wow OP. I don't see why you need to ask. You seem to solve your own problems. You're smooth, confident, good talker, spontaneous, funny. You're pretty much set. I can see two reasons why she's backing away though.