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Valentines Fail (14)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-15 08:30 ID:yWtzWdyo

so, here's my story of fail

there's a girl i've been into the past few months. it's basically like we've been dating, it's just we wouldnt really show it in public. i asked her out one night a month or so ago and she said she doesnt know. we talked about it last week and she doesnt know if she wants to date or not because we used to fight A LOT. she doesnt want to be with a guy where all she would do with him is fight. so, i've been getting better on that.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-15 09:26 ID:EArXX8HN

from my previous experience - nothing good ever comes out from indecisive girls... I don't think she's worth being in relationship with you after not saying yes when you did something that nice and also been trying to change for her because of that fighting

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-15 16:20 ID:KXRN2J+u

Dude she is a waste of your time. If she can’t appreciate you after all of that she isn’t worth your time. You Can Do Better.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-15 17:49 ID:5gjizYDq

I think you're doing it wrong. Red roses usually mean love, and white purity/childhood/friendship. Also, you're not supposed to offer 13 roses (or, I think, any flower). Oh, well, that's just symbolics, it's the intent that counts, right?

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-15 17:50 ID:5gjizYDq

>>4 again
Mh, sorry if that sounded a bit rude. Actually I find the idea quite good. I'm just too much perfectionnist.

I don't think the girl is as bad as >>2 and >>3 suggest, but really. Tell her to make a choice or you're gone.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-15 19:48 ID:mck0gdzx

Maybe is girltalk for no.

7 Name: TIMELESS GOD(@) : 2009-02-15 20:01 ID:Heaven


8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-16 00:49 ID:hca6J3BN

"i need to think" = 70% dumped...
if you wait and still hoping for her = 100% dumped...
why? because it would reflected trough your eyes that you are still waiting for the aswer and that gives her pressure... at the end she woud said no...

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9 Name: op : 2009-02-16 06:37 ID:yWtzWdyo

OP here... what i need now are tips on how to move on.

she was over tonight, and we started making out and all that and getting sexual. then she stopped me. we started talking about stuff, she started saying how "stressful" the whole situation is on her. so of course, i ask what's stressing her out. she said that me, the situation i put her in, and everything that's going on in her life. so of course, i ask what's been going on.

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10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-16 06:58 ID:KIojMQY/

There is an old maxim, and it is quite true. It has lasted the ages due to its truthfulness. Time heals all wounds. EMotional, or physical, mental. Just block her off, don't talk to her anymore, and be outgoing and talk to as many new people as you can. If you already have a lot of friends then have fun with them, otherwise make new friends! Fill the gap with new people, but people you want to be around. You'll find a new girl eventually, maybe one who isn't as callous as your former love interest.

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-16 07:20 ID:hca6J3BN

i know it hurts a lot...
i second >>10!!!!

12 Name: Demo-Man : 2009-02-16 13:35 ID:evpdCXaA


You wanted to move on? Just watch a lot of porns, do anything you like, play games, read stuffs. That's how I got over my crush last month. I sent her a good bye email, blocked her MSN, didn't visit her blog, and deleted her from my friendster list.

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-16 18:53 ID:wYR/bxT8

Either go along with >>10 or >>12, or it seems that all she wants is your dick. That's gonna be harder, but might work if you get all cold-hearted and cut the feeling crap. At least you'll probably screw her "current" relationship by doing such.

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14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-17 00:36 ID:KXRN2J+u

Ditch her. You made it perfectly clear how you felt about her. She wants all of the affection and none of the commitment. You sound like a nice guy and don’t deserve this kind of crap. Best thing to do is block her of completely and find someone new. The two best ways to move on are:
1) Find someone new (a nice and enjoyable option)

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