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So there's this girl... (18)

1 Name: Mr Despair : 2009-02-17 11:34 ID:/xDIx4yI

Yeah, it's pretty much the same thing everywhere these days. So there's this girl I like but we're separated by countries and we rarely get to talk, well I really need advice on how to swoon her and hopefully make her fall for me

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-17 13:50 ID:gbVT8Fqx

Get your ass over to whatever country she's in after developing meaningfull conversation and possibly suggesting somewhere along the way that you meet up.

3 Name: Mr Despair : 2009-02-17 20:52 ID:/xDIx4yI

but that's one problems, me and her aren't very good at making conversations and I don't have a job to get any money to go see her

4 Name: Mr Despair : 2009-02-17 21:34 ID:/xDIx4yI

I guess I should also mention I'm still doing my cert 4/diploma in IT (web development) right now

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-17 21:45 ID:wMdU14ib

how did you actually meet?

6 Name: Mr Despair : 2009-02-17 22:27 ID:/xDIx4yI

I met her on a forum

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-17 22:37 ID:yZFB7uwJ

>I met her on a forum

That's all. Story ends here. Just forget and find somebody real.

8 Name: Mr Despair : 2009-02-17 22:44 ID:/xDIx4yI

well you really just can't forget feelings for someone

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-17 22:48 ID:wMdU14ib

and did you exchange photos? phone each other? met?

10 Name: Mr Despair : 2009-02-17 22:50 ID:/xDIx4yI

we haven't phoned each other or met each other in real life yet, but hopefully I'll get a job soon so I can meet her next year at something called "anime north"

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-17 23:24 ID:wMdU14ib

>>10 ok, and what's her take on the relationship? Love, friendship? pen-pal?

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-18 00:06 ID:lKDMEjqR

it's too hard to move on....... i think...
you better see another girl than to stuck with someone who is far from you...
is she single?

13 Name: Mr Despair : 2009-02-18 03:38 ID:gxzoJAhl

I think she only wants to be friends for now :/
there really aren't any girls that interest me in the city I live in, they all pretty much live up to the blond or brunette stereotype and yes she is single

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-18 08:05 ID:i7i/Qn4D

>>13 considering your situation, I think your next goal would be to start exchanging photos, and to get to the phone call level. That would already be a major progression in your relationship.

Oh yeah, you definitely must meet her at this anime thingy, if you really want to continue this relationship.

15 Name: Mr Despair : 2009-02-18 08:48 ID:/xDIx4yI

I don't think she would be willing to swap photos since she wouldn't tell me how to find her on facebook

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-18 09:39 ID:T5jcDOnu

>>15 Well, it's absolutely not the same thing, don't you think?

17 Name: Mr Despair : 2009-02-19 02:58 ID:/xDIx4yI

we're starting to talk more now, is this a sign that she's starting to like me more?

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-19 09:39 ID:LKSYn6bl

At this point, making this kind of assumptions is rather pointless.