For those who've stood by on the "easier to be in a relation that's the same ethnicity" thread, you know what's going on.
Ok so I recently found out (JUST NOW!) that my school is throwing this ASB Ball "Under the Stars". So I'm basically trying to ask Korean girl out. Not working out. Still we haven't talked all week and I better make my move fast. But it's not easy for me. I actually kinda feel bad. Why? For the past 2 nights, I've sent text messages to her that never got any replies and plus they were both pretty bad. One was an apology for not talking to her this week and the other was to see if she was still awake. Boy do I feel...NO, STILL FEEL LIKE A COMPLETE IDIOT! =<
just go and talk to her. What would she think of a guy who does not even dare to come up to her?
And you would be well advised to concentrate less on the Korean Nerd and more on the Korean Girl.
OK, dude. Here's what you have to do:
1) Chill the hell out. She's just a girl, man. She's practically like you and me, only a girl.
2) Ask her out.
also I should add that you should ask her out by going to her and asking her out to the dance.
Not by staring at her at school and then sending an SMS at midnight.
you made a big mistake...
actually that is not something you have to apologize for~
Greetings Sir Shock, I have made some outrageous assumptions and recommendations in order to better your situation.
I am presuming that you like this girl based purely on her looks or, that you have omitted her other qualities in the other thread. If this is the case, then it is a mere infatuation, and you should not become fluttered so much as to apologize for not talking to her.
Sometimes I surprise even myself…..
Yesterday I asked her out to the ASB Ball and I got the same answer of I’ll ask my sister. Still don’t know why she always goes to her sister but she does. After that my friend completely embarrassed himself and I in front of her as he was trying to get to know her “hot” friend. What occurred was an odd situation of awkward silence and spontaneous laughter between he and I for no apparent reason. I made a bad move….
It seems like you have the time and option to have fun with other girls, which is a good thing. Remember to enjoy your high school life while you can!