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iM FAlling in Love... I think... (34)


1 Name: ringo-chan : 2009-02-20 05:43 ID:KBmMXjg0

I think im falling in love.. im 21 going 22 this march.. this is my first time to fall in love.. or so i think.. i dont know if this is love or just plain like.. im always easily attracted to guys.. especially guys who look like animes.. (well, im an otaku) im also part of those population that you call nbsb or no boyfriend since birth.. so i really dont know if what i feel for this guy is love or like.. oh, im sorry, i forgot to mention im a girl and im fr the philippines..

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2 Name: 777 : 2009-02-20 10:34 ID:+sIJy2iE

In response to your question of "is this love im feeling for him or just like?"

Ask yourself this; if he was lacking the qualities as you described, "cute.. nice.. attractive.. fun to be with.." would you still be interested in him?

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-20 22:59 ID:YojtpnFV

Love or like, it actually does not matter. What matters is that you are interested in him, and that is enough to warrant some action on your part over him ^_^

Your strategy should be to get to spend some good times with him. The more time he is willing to share with you, the better. So find out what are his interests (movies, music, food, whatever), and turn those interests into activities you both can take part in.

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4 Name: Keiichi!!ZYkjrp2f : 2009-02-22 10:13 ID:zbs2P6Oh

kabayan... I just felt the need to reply on your thread... all my past girlfriends confessed to me...

You are inlove if...

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5 Name: ringo-chan : 2009-02-23 07:01 ID:19GK5eSa

thank you so much! i really appreciate your all of your advice... yep... based on what you have mentioned, i really am in love with him...

lately i am spending a lot of time with him... after work, either he'll wait for me and we will eat a simple breakfast (because our shift ends in the morning for call center representatives) or i'll wait for him and we eat with our common friends... (because of our shifting schedules) before, im too lazy to go out because im a homebody.. but now, because of him, i tend to go out a lot... of course, with him or our common friends... im am much closer to him now (i think), of course, as a friend... hehehe

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6 Name: ringo-chan : 2009-02-23 07:09 ID:19GK5eSa

@kabayan Keiichi!!ZYkjrp2f_ID:zbs2P6Oh

hehehe... sobrang tugmang tugma mga binanggit mo...

7 Name: Keiichi!!ZYkjrp2f : 2009-02-23 13:11 ID:Heaven

that is indeed complicated... the same goes with me and my ex, she's a very liberated woman, i'm a very conservative man... I actually broke up with her due to trust issues... I found out that she slept with her crush a week or so before naging kami...

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8 Name: ringo-chan : 2009-02-24 07:01 ID:BaKB7XjD

yep... he always tells stories about his night out with girls and of course, the do "it"... he tends to be very wild whenever he is drunk.. he told me he slept with his gf's bestfriend while they were still in a relationship... kamusta naman di ba? hehehe... weird thing is i still like him.. im hurt na nga when he told me who his crush is... and now, at our office, i recently found out there are two girls who likes him... one is very liberated, the other one is still a very young beautiful girl... i dont know what to do na... sigh

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-24 09:53 ID:vMg4ooCT

Well,... at least if you go for him, you know what's in store, which is already not so bad ;-) But ultimately, whether you go for him or not is your personal call.

10 Name: Dude-chan : 2009-02-24 10:59 ID:wxm7tl04

Kung isipin mo na ganun... This guy is somehat dense.

11 Name: Keiichi!!ZYkjrp2f : 2009-02-24 13:11 ID:zbs2P6Oh

ringo-chan, it seems to be his style of flirting with you (the stories about his nightout with girls with the "it" part) or maybe he's just proud telling his stories to you - it feeds his ego maybe because he knows that you like him, after all, he seems like an expert on wooing women, you know, good at getting pussy, even fresh ones...

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12 Name: ringo~chan : 2009-02-25 07:35 ID:IK8x0jWq

guys, thanks so much sa advice... i really appreciate it... it helped me clear my foggy mind because of my feelings for him... i will really think about this... i know, this is a life changing decision for me because it will include me giving my heart to him... lets just say, im extremes kasi... but thank you so much po talaga... ^_^

13 Name: ringo~chan : 2009-02-25 07:36 ID:IK8x0jWq

@ Dude-chan : 2009-02-24 10:59 ID:wxm7tl04

paano mo pong nasabing dense siya? im just curious as to why?

14 Name: the bear : 2009-02-25 17:59 ID:7Nz95SBQ

you say youre an otaku. how do you live with yourself.
i have to say i feel terribly sorry for the miserable fuck you fell in love with. stop polluting other peoples lives with your insignificant presence. just fap to some haruhi record your self. profit?

15 Name: the bear : 2009-02-25 18:03 ID:7Nz95SBQ

you say youre an otaku. how do you live with yourself.
i have to say i feel terribly sorry for the miserable fuck you fell in love with. stop polluting other peoples lives with your insignificant presence. just fap to some haruhi record your self. profit?

16 Name: Keiichi!!ZYkjrp2f : 2009-02-26 02:25 ID:zbs2P6Oh

>>12

give your heart but save some for yourself, you don't want to be left empty handed if you fail. do well OP.

17 Name: ringo~chan : 2009-02-26 21:16 ID:8sRdg2cN

@ the bear

actually, i still live with my family. my friends even say im still like a kid. when i go to work early in the morning (like 1-3 am) my parents hired a driver to send me off to work. were not rich. my parents are still protective when it comes to me, their only daughter.

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18 Name: Keiichi!!ZYkjrp2f : 2009-02-27 06:39 ID:Heaven

Hey ringo,

I'm actually on my way to see my ex this weekend... I'm still "inlove" with her but I think i'm feeling better about it, acceptance that I can never be with this person is slowly sinking in... I mean, I still have business to attend to and that is my miserable little life, for now, I have other plans - like convince her to become my friend because i'd be really sad if mawawala ang presence niya sa buhay ko...

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19 Name: Keiichi!!ZYkjrp2f : 2009-02-27 06:53 ID:zbs2P6Oh

Oh... It's like this... At the moment, I consider her as a friend but she considers me as her boyfriend... You might misunderstand my >>4 post... She doesn't want me to be her friend, she wants us to be more than friends...

20 Name: ringo~chan : 2009-02-27 10:00 ID:wbyFpoHH

@ keiichi

conservative, as in never been kissed never been touched... and the same as you, before you were "raped" by your gf... heheh.. i want to give my all to my future husband... and im also conservative manamit.. no sleeveless blouses, no plunging necklines and the sort...

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21 Name: Keiichi!!ZYkjrp2f : 2009-03-01 13:55 ID:zbs2P6Oh

Just came home, spent the most of the weekend with my ex.

Kasi ringo~chin, I don't want to invest too much emotions sa kanya, boyfriend = commitment kasi tsaka ayaw ko namang friends with benefits dahil di ko naman siya ginagamit, mahal ko kasi talaga yun. Umiyak na kasi ako sa kanya eh, first time yun sa buhay ko na umiyak ako sa babae... Masakit, sobrang sakit, kakaibang sakit, ganun pala yun, hindi na ako ngayon nagtataka kung bakit nagagawang magpakamatay ng ibang tao dahil nabigo sila sa pag-ibig...

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22 Name: ringo~chan : 2009-03-04 02:29 ID:NQZatTno

@keiichi

wow... you know, the guy i like has the same character as your ex-gf... based on the descriptions that you gave of your ex, yep.. kisame is the guy counterpart.. and Ive thought about it really hard... i love kisame... but i wont be able to bear the pain "if" we became attached and he's still doing "it" with other girls because i know for a fact i wont be able to give him my "virginity" before marriage.. they say im "old school".. i don't care...

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23 Name: Keiichi!!ZYkjrp2f : 2009-03-11 01:27 ID:zbs2P6Oh

Hey ringo~chin,

Everytime me and my ex met, we always kissed and hugged, I couldn't resist because of the feelings I have for her. But last weekend was different, although I couldn't resist to hug her, I actually didn't kiss her which I think, is a good thing because maybe it's a sign that i'm making progress on actually being her friend rather than being her lover. She didn't get to hug me (she's too shy in public but a monster when we're alone) and I was okay with it. I think all that's left to do is try to explain to her why i'm not pursuing a relationship with her and why i'll stop pursuing my feelings for her (reason is that the feeling will just keep hurting me because I can't get myself trust her, she still hangs out with her exes even though she tells me, I can't be sure because we're far away from each other).

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24 Name: ringo~chan : 2009-03-14 23:01 ID:HmYiIDan

well... im still hurting.. but i'm trying very hard to move on... he already has 2 new girl toys... <well, thats what i call them> these 2 girls both have their respective boyfriends.. one girl is also my officemate... let's call her "rp"... that girl is currently in war with her present boyfriend and is using "kisame" as a "panakip-butas" (temporary replacement)... she herself told me she has no plans on having a long term relationship with him... at first i was hurt with that, well, because i still had strong feelings for him when she told me that... but now i've realized, im out of the picture... if that's what he want, who am i to interfere... oh, and she doesn't know that i like him... and i'm the one they run to for advice when they are in lq (lover's quarrel)... hehehe... what a complicated situation i am in, neh?

25 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-15 01:01 ID:EHg2qKQ9

Actually your situation is quite simple: unrequited love. It's because you don't let go that it gets complicated.

You need a change of hair. There are more interesting men besides your co-worker

26 Name: ringo~chan : 2009-03-15 05:22 ID:OEnJ39Ni

>>25

well, you're right about that... i will let go of him asap.. im working hard on it... :)

27 Name: Keiichi!!ZYkjrp2f : 2009-03-22 02:11 ID:zbs2P6Oh

Heee-eeeeyyyy ringo~chin~~~

I say... Just take it one day at a time, eventually, you'll get over the feeling...

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28 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-29 15:21 ID:7umQfwp9

>>1
what?!?! you made a vow to not confess??
that a very dumb thing to do....
just ask him out on a dinner or so then see what he do

29 Name: chewbacca : 2009-03-29 16:16 ID:vIKFWImg

does he have thick hair as well?

30 Name: Keiichi!!ZYkjrp2f : 2009-04-09 02:10 ID:zbs2P6Oh

Still around ringo~chin? I got my ex to agree to be being friends na lang. Kaninang umaga lang umiyak ako, the memories just kept coming. Anyway, life goes on, gotta stand on my decision... Kamusta naman?

31 Name: ringo~chan : 2009-05-04 04:14 ID:vJDhJ7QN

HI guys!

i want to inform you that the guy I think im in love with is now currently in a relationship with another friend of mine... another close friend of mine.. heheh...

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32 Name: ringo~chan : 2009-05-04 04:16 ID:vJDhJ7QN

@keiichi

well... thats a very hard decision to make... i respect and admire you for what you did...

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33 Name: Keiichi!!ZYkjrp2f : 2009-05-20 07:25 ID:zbs2P6Oh

He-eeey ringo~chin,

It's great to know that you're doing great at work. As for me, am quitting work at the end of the next month. Doing what I did was a lot harder than I thought it would be... I'm doing fine although sometimes I can't help feeling sad, guess I can't help thinking of her, di ko mapigilang mamiss sya ng sobra...

34 Name: Ryuuchi : 2009-05-20 19:39 ID:dfgS3qN/

I always thought those call center peeps always show off with their "classy" clothes and all.

Anywho, it sounds like this guy is a player. I wouldn't go for a guy who is a player because what I think about those guys is that they are not looking for true love at the moment and just want to play around with girls.

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