I met a girl in a seminar I needed to take for my job. Pretty, smart, sarcastic, good sense of humor, similar hobbies, etc. Although we never hit it off, I figured, what the hell, she's attractive and intelligent, and asked her out for coffee or whatever. Surprisingly, she very enthusiastically accepted. Mini-date went well (except finding out she goes to /b/ :-/), and we decided to hang out again in the future, but she wasn't cool with giving out her phone number so she gave me her myspace. Silly, as I can get twice as much personal info from her myspace. Anyway, I guess this is the problem part. Checking out her old photos it became dead obvious that she had gotten a hell of a lot of plastic surgery, mostly on her face. The silly thing is she was really cute before and more or less dropped a, what I'm guessing was, shit load of money to go from a B to a B+.
If you lost interest, just explain her that you lost interest (something like "thanks for your nice letter, but it was nice hanging out with you, but please don't misunderstand, that I am not ready to start a relationship, etc"). Don't just leave her hanging like that, you would not appreciate if it was done to you...
Your posting name says it all, how damn shallow of you. The plastic surgery this girl went through was probably to hide her insecurities and to better her chances at impressing men such as you and I.
If she had gone from say, a 5/10 to a 7/10, I would understand it and probably not bother asking this board for advice, but she really didn't need the amount of surgery she got. She was hot beforehand. A friend of mine hypothesized maybe she had an accident or was assaulted or disfigured somehow along those lines and decided to get a little extra work done.
Well, that's quite a dilema you got there. Since it's based on your preferences and not really on actions or behavior from the other side, it's quite hard to help here.
It seems like you're taking the fact that she made a lot of unecessary changes to her body discusting, in some way, isn't it? Did you talk about it with her? (I don't mean asking her "Hey babe, why did you change your face into such censored when you were great before?")
She might not have had plastic surgery. Typically, girls post hot pictures of themselves that really look nothing like them at all.
Hello again. Out of a fit of loneliness or whatever (it's been a while since I dated anyone), I ended up going out with her Friday. Did not go well to say the least. I couldn't help but be a slight bit awkward (only talking about our different lines of work and shit like that,) so things were a little rough to start off with and then during a lapse in conversation I made the mistake of asking why she gave me her myspace, leading to "oh, at first I thought your way of blowing me off since all the pictures look nothing like you now" (=me being stupid and awkward.)
well im a fat girl and i post the fattest ugliest pix i can because then ppl can be pleasantly surprised when they see me irl though i never pull hot doods on the internet :-/ xx from birmingham