I am a 22 year old male. I have a college degree, a nice job, no debt, in good shape, a few close friends that I hardly see because of my job, and a very supportive family. I have been having a lot of anxiety lately over what I think is a big deal.
Your standards are odd. Whether they are selfish or unfair is irrelevant. But clearly you love to create excuses to avoid having to risk contact with others.
I mean, you want to go to bed with a virgin, although a virgin may not herself want to go to bed, otherwise chances are she wouldn't be a virgin. Plus you invent stories on how you screw other girls, which means that people who value virginity will avoid you. Finally, what makes you think that people will have tried to remain virgin, just to go to bed with you?