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Thinking about asking him out... (7)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-13 05:25 ID:PS2zxRq0

There's a guy that I've liked since on the beginning of freshman year of high school that I want to ask to my school's Sadie Hawkin's dance, but I'm not quite sure how I should do it.

I'm thinking of baking him something, but would that be considered overboard?

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2 Name: the bear : 2009-03-13 05:56 ID:Ku8K6DvI

that depends. how close are you?
if your relationship with im is not so close then baking him something might be a little.. too much

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-13 08:06 ID:jM9BECW4

like >>2 says, you should be a bit more gradual. Sentimental notes are fine once you already received some positive feedback.

Why don't you just talk to him and ask directly?

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-13 15:22 ID:mD6m1Q7N

>>2 How close would the guy and I have to be? And >>3, what do you mean positive feedback?

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-13 15:50 ID:jM9BECW4

>what do you mean positive feedback?

If he agrees to go dance with you, or to go out, and you have already some familiarity and experience with one another, THEN you might think about doing it, because you know better how he would take it, and he would know better how to interpret it coming from you.

6 Name: the bear : 2009-03-13 16:08 ID:0YIAbqOe

well just think of this way, if somebody you barely knew came up to you and offered you some sort of food, wouldnt you feel a little uncomfortable, so just approach him first and then move up to whatever it is you would like to do with him that would take things to a next level.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-27 10:30 ID:Lb1ivS/k

i just think that if it me i would only go to dance with a girl i know