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1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-23 06:54 ID:40DhcQwT

Is it odd for a 26 year old male to have no experience with the opposite sex? As in no dates, kisses or anything else.

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-23 08:05 ID:StMmtAik

It's not odd, it's just infrequent. Let's say you are in the minority. But then, geniuses and rich people are also a minority, and I don't think that's a problem.

Now if you tell me you have three eyes, green skin, and a horn in your forehead, then you qualify for odd ^_^

3 Name: sage : 2009-03-23 09:08 ID:3iqMGIoB

Is it odd, yes.

4 Name: H-town Stomper : 2009-03-23 11:04 ID:xQex+00H

No, it just means you have no game.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-23 14:24 ID:UYSdoCKS

Not odd.

I'm on my way to that point as well. I'm just a bit behind you. I'm 19 and haven't been on a date, haven't held hands with, or kissed a girl.

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6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-24 06:49 ID:SyEGK33V

For what you lack in social experience, you surely make up for in some other part of your life, right?

7 Name: Otakun : 2009-03-24 07:54 ID:mymUOxJi

OP and >>5, you just have to get out there more and take more risks ^_^. All you gotta do is increase your will power more!

8 Name: Demo_Man : 2009-03-24 12:32 ID:iSrOuxUX

>>1

OP, me too. I'm approaching 25 this year and I have no experience in dating a girl. I nvr kiss and nvr hold hand either. I'm so dead -_-;

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-24 12:38 ID:cKEaA9b9

>>5

>>Look at the bright side, you're certainly not alone on this. Just check out this forum and you'll find you're in good company.
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10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-24 16:22 ID:JtUf0h3x

>>9 great point. We're all odd. Suits me fine ^_^

11 Name: Underthecovers : 2009-03-24 23:56 ID:2vpJIGqS

no way.. i believe you guys have game. you guys just have to access it!!

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-25 00:57 ID:emvf5Qq9

why don't you have any now? do you like that fact or not like it? fuck our opinion. if your cool then cool. if not, then time to make some moves. you might want to change the question to "how can i...?"

>>9

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13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-25 14:59 ID:cKEaA9b9

>>12

>>why don't you have any now? do you like that fact or not like it?
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14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-25 15:50 ID:StMmtAik

>>13 It seems to me that you are facing some issues deeper than not being able to date women. It's not normal to attempt suicide because of a failed date.

Are actually trying to address those issues? Otherwise, I fear that even if you found someone ready to go out with you, it would be a train wreck...

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-25 16:23 ID:cKEaA9b9

>>14

>>Are actually trying to address those issues?
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16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-25 16:42 ID:StMmtAik

>>15 So you're telling me that you have suicidal tendencies, but don't get professional help because the insurance doesn't pay and you might lose your job? Don't you have your priorities crossed?

This is something which is ruining your life, and may end up killing you. Don't you think you can devote some money to it? Also, I'm sure you can take precautions to avoid letting your boss know about it.

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17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-25 18:19 ID:cKEaA9b9

>>16

But the thing is, it's easier to leave things as they are. When I'm stable, it's easy to believe that perhaps this time I'm up for good, and there won't be another attack. And when I'm not stable, staying alive isn't exactly a priority.

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18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-25 19:06 ID:StMmtAik

>>17 you don't need anti-depressents at the moment, since you are feeling all right. What you really need is to develop effective strategies to cope with crisis. I'm not sure you got that one. Everyone is fine in between crisis, and usually you don't commit suicide when you are feeling great. The problem is to find ways of managing the crisis, the very bad times. And perhaps this is where you could get some help.

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19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-25 21:46 ID:lTeVuEk2

Bitches aint shit. Yes, thats extreme, but so are most of the cases here. I'm trying to become more of an asshole personally, because women, strange as it may sound, like assholes. Assholes finish first. Read the Tucker Max website. Let it sink in. Yeah, he might be decrepit, but if some of that rubs off on us, what will the outcome be, averaging the two? I see a force to be reckoned with.

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20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-25 23:10 ID:4CpX0HzB

>I'm trying to become more of an asshole personally, because women, strange as it may sound, like assholes.

Cool, one competitor less to get the girls ^_^ Have fun being an asshole, you seem to have enough bitterness to fill the rest of your days.

21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-26 00:55 ID:cKEaA9b9

>>18

>>I don't think you specifically need to do anything at the moment, except if your fears block your life (girl dating, for instance).
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