okay so this girl that i like has a bad habit of flirting with taken guys. and unfortunately it pisses off my sister. ( were very close but not blood related). currently shes flirting with my friend Ruben. who currently has a girlfriend whom he is very happy with and they have been going out for two years. now im in love with they girl that's flirting with him.. her name is Rebbecca. unfortunately she likes Ruben who is already taken. i don't know if i should like her cause i just got my heart ripped out by another girl whom i was in love with for three years and she just used me and lied to me... im trying to move on but its not really working so i guess ill try someone else right? well i like her but i don't know what to do about her likening Ruben. i asked her out awhile ago but she said no cause she was flirting with my sisters boyfriend at the time...any suggestions? cause i really want to go out with her.
this might not be the advice you are looking for, but I feel that it is necessary to say it. When you love somebody, despite whatever flaws that person has, you can't hope but love them. I've gotten my heart broken many times, but I still love those fleeting moments. You need to sit down and ask yourself: Do I really love her? Despite her flirting, can I still love her?
same shit, different girl. a lot of girls want what they cant have. she cant have rubin so she wants him. if you make yourself seem unattainable or a prized catch, she will be all over you. but dont expect a long relationship. hook up and get out while you can.
yeah i mean the other girl that i wanted first hates me now..so all i was left with was Rebbecca. but i thinks theirs this girl Rachel who i share a lot in common with especially the hatred of the girl that ripped my heart out the first time. we have gotten very close. so maybe ill try for her. Rebbecca has flirted with Ruben and what pisses me off is that he doesn't say anything to her. and hes engaged!!!!maybe hes trying to save her feelings but she has a bad habit right. my sister already wants to deck her. and i don't blame her.
i support your sister.
hahahaha so do i. that girl needs to get decked. anyways. so i don't know what to do right now. Ive know this Rachel girl for about a month and we hang out together everyday 5th period and during lunch. we have a lot in common. but i don't know if i should ask her out or should i wait and hang out with her more. i know her pretty well. but im afraid that she'll do the same thing that the other girl did to me.ironically her name is also Rachel. she hurt me pretty badly. im still fucked up cause of it.....any sugesstions
well i asked that girl out and i don't know what to do from there. she says that she dosent want to no but she dosent want to say yes either.. so explain what she means.. cause im confused
She means that she wants to hang out a bit with you just to see if it seems to work, before committing herself. Basically just try to spend some good time with her, by doing fun things together.
Your start does not seem so bad, I would say.
She said yes!!! finally i haves a girlfriend. okay any advice for having a new girlfriend?
Now just get to know her better, what does she likes, what are her interests, and do things related to that with her. Your priority is to spend "good times" with her, so that she learns to look forward to be with you.
and dont't do ecstasy
>>11 hahaha yeah i probaly shouldnt do that... but umm okay now i just gota figure out when to hang out with her. i know she loves to burn things. and make explosives and torches. hmmm i also know she likes lighters,gasoline,kerosene. also... at my house my parents are really strict about girls in the house. like i have to leave the door open and stuff cause they think were gonna have sex. and there always intruding on me and stuff waht can i say to make my parents not be like this cause i wont get any alone time with her with them being like that...
shit messed up teenagers and their fucked up hormones.
don't call ur thread "argh women" when u and ur friends are obviously messed up horny teenagers.