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I fell in love with a borderline girl (12)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-01 02:45 ID:txkWVc8t

I guess this is gonna be hard. Any advices? U_U

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-01 02:49 ID:bRM07Zv/

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-01 06:53 ID:kFlF6NtE

Ex-wife was diagnosed Borderline. ;)

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-01 08:59 ID:poTNqZ4f

>>1 actually,what does the girl think about the condition? Her attitude might be important.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-01 18:05 ID:+rQDKTf4

She feels worthless, and thinks nobody could ever love her. And here i am, trying to gather courage to ask her out.
>>1 Yeah, she is being medicated and in therapy.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-01 18:15 ID:poTNqZ4f

>>5 well, it's not always going to be easy, but on the other hand it's easier than if for instance she did not accept her condition and refused treatment.

I don't see why you should not try.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-01 21:58 ID:40wJtP9D

Also, Borderlines are the best in bed. No joking. Absolutely freaky.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-06 04:15 ID:T8Ij2/1K

Ok, so shes borderline. Thing is you know what her biggest weaknesses are and if you have spent enough time with her you know that she might see your statements as truth as long as you have not been working more on just making her feel good and focused on being honest and nice to her. If you then approach her and tell her how you feel honestly she will then regard you higher and might date you.

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9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-06 09:56 ID:nKAgMzog

>>8, I see what you are aiming for, but no one can know whether he can commit himself for years in a relationship, specially at the beginning of it. It's enough that the OP feels sincerely about it, there's no need for him to put so much pressure on himself that he gives up prematurely.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-08 03:53 ID:Zl8/A3IL


op here. I think i'll be able to hang on, though i still haven't found the perfect ocassion to tell her what i feel. Yesterday we spent a lot of time together. Well, actually she spent a lot of time shopping and i was carrying her bags. I guess i need to work in my security as well. U_U

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-08 22:36 ID:+rQDKTf4

Op here; Mission accomplished! =D

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-09 02:38 ID:6HYAMi9f

>>11 congrats and good luck, OP ^_^