Hey so i was in school today and i was looking out the windows (My class is at the 2nd floor) and when i looked down i saw two girls (classroom on the 1st floor), actually i only saw one but there were two. Anyway, that one that i saw was soooo cute, and she smiled as she looked up (Problem is: i was with another classmate and i don't know if she was smiling at him or at me.) I was kinda hiding too but smiling back from time to time.
>>1 First, don't worry about the other guy, only worry about you and the girl.
Second, get to know the name of the girl. Meet her. Find out what are her interests, and suggest something both of you could do together, and that she might find interesting.
>>2 As i mentioned before i am shy, so it's a big deal for me to go to her classroom and start talking to her. My plan if nobody would have replied was to go back to that window and if she ever saw me again to start chatting with her.
>>3 I realize you are shy, but you still need to find out the name of the girl, and meet her, and find out what are her interests, etc. Being shy does not dispense you from that.
How do you plant to get to do all that? I don't want to hear how shy you are, just how you think you will do it?
Yeah, you're right.... I hate myself, i met her today on the hallway she was sitting on the floor, i was walking and she looked at me, i looked at her too... for 2 seconds we were looking at eachother. Unfortunately i couldn't say anything, she was with her classmates, i didn't have the courage :(
You know, I don't see any other way than coming up to her, and say "hi, I'm Anon, what's your name?". Its simple, and it does not matter if there are classmates around. Of course, they may giggle, or whatever, but that's a small price to get to know the girl you are interested in?
First step (and it's a big one) grow some balls. Girls like masculine men who aren't shy and will go out of their way to talk to them. If you act like something is awkward or weird, it is. If you act like it's cool and natural, it is. So be cool, and be masculine.
>>7 You, sir, are the king of good advice. I'll see what i can do with this, i'll change some things since they'd sound weird in my language (which will remain hidden in case my friends are reading this).
Easter break... :( i hadn't had the chance to meet her again...