>>13 haha:0) You know how that goes...it's just I happen to go through it with Japanese women. I am friends with a lot of them, I run two businesses that cater specifically to Japanese women and Japanese female hip hop dancers, and that just always turns into some type of relationship at one point or another. Just like everyone here prolly has a circle of friends and they end up dating most of them at some point. I apologize for the macho taint...i've never even viewed myself as that. My girls ALL tell me "and other Jgirls" that i'm a playboy, if they are a girlfriend or just a friend.
Anyway, back to the main point. If what >>13 pointed out is the viewpoint to be taken, then yes...I agree. Don't spend so much time fantasizing...just be about it. Go do it, and see if you like it:0)