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Is it unrequitted love...? (4)


1 Name: Alohi : 2009-04-15 07:44 ID:ZFLrzoZb

At a month-long summer camp I hooked up with a guy that I met there. We were friends first, flirting at some points I guess. Then idiotically we on decided to tell each other our feelings till the night before the last day. It was a long distance relationship (I'd have to take a plane to see him). It worked out great for one month with phone calls and chatting I even got to see him once. The trouble/stress/being so far away got to him and he broke it off via phone. We decided to be friends. During the time he got a girlfriend and it didn't work out. I remained single to focus on my studies. Now it's rare we talk to eachother. At the summer camp that we met at we both had a group of friends and we promised eachother we'd go to China this summer. I'm not sure he's going anymore. I think I still might have feelings for him...What do I do?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-15 09:27 ID:CtkeUVyb

Move on. If you don't have any perspective of living close to him in the near future, then I think it's just not worth it. You barely know each other, and you already have to endure the huge stress of a long distance relationship.

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3 Name: Alohi : 2009-04-19 21:39 ID:ZFLrzoZb

Thanks for the advice. You kind of brought me down earth. Now, I think I'm just going to go through with the trip to China even if he decides to go or not.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-19 22:36 ID:wezq8SWm

>>3 nice to hear that. I hope you'll enjoy your trip ^_^)