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Am I fickle? (4)


1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-17 17:15 ID:xx62DLdp

For a while I was hanging out with this one girl I know. She is older than me by about 3 years, but she was forced to stay in school for a couple of years after her immigration to the states. She graduated after the midterms in my high school. I am a junior.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-17 18:19 ID:Q6Dhv3Ni

Well, many women are like that, affectively dependent on an abusive partner. It's hard to understand them, because even after incredibly bad treatment, they'll still go for their guy. But you don't need to understand it to accept that it's a fact of life, and that you can do little about it.

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3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-18 00:23 ID:xx62DLdp

Thanks a lot for your kind words.
I am sure that I won't be bitter, I was a little at first, but now I am not concerned. I was just unsure if my lack of concern, etc., was normal. I take it that it is, now, but please correct me if I am wrong.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-18 02:26 ID:VU7dzJUH

>>3 like I said, don't worry, it's entirely normal. Not worrying is part of the "letting go" thing you need to do to recover from your story, you don't need to feel guilty about it.