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in love with a little girl (15)


1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-05-21 19:46 ID:uGiTPEqR

try reading evertything before judging
keep in mind that I'm serious, so I want serious answers.

Basically I think I'm in love with a 7 years old girl.

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2 Name: Ryuuchi : 2009-05-21 21:32 ID:F0tj4YIL

I like to say frankly this is very, very strange to me and never have I met anyone offline or online about this kind of situation. Sounds so surreal.

I'm kinda....hmmmmm. Well, you can wait and stay friends with her and support her all the way in many years to come. Be patient until you wait the right time.

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3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-05-21 22:03 ID:V2PjpSqv

>>all I want is to spend some time with her,talk with her, play with her, hold her hand and hug her.

This sounds like a healthy relationship for an adult to have with a 7 year old. Love does not always mean sex, and love does not always mean romance. Don't try to be her boyfriend; she's too young to know what romantic love is. Be this kid's friend. Be this kid's confidant.

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4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-05-21 23:41 ID:uGiTPEqR

op here.
guess I understand.

I do expect something in love. just not now... I know she is not mature to understand such things.

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5 Name: Einz : 2009-05-22 00:37 ID:x+1dytvt

I think u must reconsider Ur choice ..
it's not easy, i know that
it's like my first love, i believe she's the only
girl I love, but time make me realize that

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6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-05-22 16:56 ID:h/4/O72C

If that was my daughter, I'd kick you in the nuts.
Seriously, she has had hardly any life experience or maturity, let alone be able to comprehend what a romantic relationship is, but already you're planning to "keep this thing alive". In other words, you're asking us how to manipulate her so that her affection for you as an uncle figure, will one day turn into a romantic one.

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7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-05-22 17:00 ID:h/4/O72C

>>3

> Love does not always mean sex, and love does not always mean romance.
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8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-05-22 22:21 ID:LTeCNau/

OP, all I'm going to say is that this isn't going to end well, or at the very least, it isn't going to end the way you want.

I don't think it's creepy or anything, just if I were you I would not expect anything to come from this situation, she will probably only see you as an uncle figure and nothing more. She will probably grow to love you, but as family not as a spouse.

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9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-05-23 15:15 ID:Heaven

Here's what you do:
Join a mountain monastery for ten years.
Christian, Buddhist, Secular Humanist, whatever.
Then you can go back and attempt a relationship with a little woman.

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10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-05-24 02:49 ID:Heaven

She's 7 or 8 right now and i'm 24. I like her a lot but ummm, I can't see us being together in the future but there is a possibility. How can you be inlove with a girl that age? Anyway, do your best OP.

11 Name: cornshit : 2009-05-24 15:32 ID:o/2ohw8q

just don't be tempted to pop her cherry too soon or you'll be dead

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-05-24 19:07 ID:fkuefS4O

>>9

Signed. If you're a troll, GTFO. If you're serious, just forget it.

13 Name: AnonymousMan7 : 2009-05-26 08:47 ID:Heaven

I know it may be hard to forget about it especially if you really love her, but you gotta realize time. She would meet someone her age who would change her world more than you probably have now and she would probably end up going out with him. Its best to forget about it now and move on. I know its hard but try dude.

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-05-26 23:41 ID:EvJ7/Xam

Funny, I am in the same situation as you are OP. She's 10 and probably the most beautiful thing I ever seen.

Anyway, I seriously have no advice to give you. I know (and you know too) that letting go is the best course of action, but, at least in my experience, this is a ridiculously hard thing to do. Something keeps tying me to her even when I realise that this is a hopeless and ridiculous love. Maybe it's the idea of loving someone innocent and pure who would love you unconditionally, in a way that no woman our age could. Or maybe it's the fact that I'm a hopeless loser that keeps hiding behind all these idealistic fantasies, afraid to grow up. Or maybe, perhaps, it's just simple love, like the love between a man and a woman, only this one being between a man and a child.

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15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-05-27 00:07 ID:ydOl4Ln+

I am usually a lurker but I'll offer you some advice. It is better if you don't get into such a relationship. I am not sure how honest you can be with a bunch of anon. But be honest to yourself. Are you truly in love with her and not driven by your desire of flesh? If you can answer this truthfully and you are not driven by your lust... then wait the few years and see if she still likes you. However, if your answer comes down to desiring her flesh. I recommend you back away and have a relationship that is platonic and brotherly. Overtime she will see you as a big brother... someone she is more open to than her boyfriend but will never consider dating. I base this on personal experience.