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Did I drop the ball on this? (And how can I recover?) (11)


1 Name: R : 2009-06-01 17:14 ID:Mhy1D5Yl

I met this girl at a party this past weekend. It seemed like we hit it off alright, danced together, she took a photo of the two of us, we exchanged contact info, I was pleased.

According to her, it was the first or second party she'd been to and she really wasn't there that long I don't think. She left somewhere after we had danced and I saw her sitting around looking kind of bored after that (though I was occupied with friends at the time) and then I saw her take off (though she did take the time to stop a phone conversation I was having to say goodbye).

The problem is I think I jumped the gun on asking to meet up. I sent her a text the next day and, perhaps due to a combination of sleep deprivation, alcohol from the previous night, and giddiness over this, I asked her if she wanted to go out for coffee later this week by the second text, figuring it was unassuming enough.

She replied that she'd love too but was busy with a lot of homework and a part time job. That itself allowed the exchange to expand, but now I'm not sure where to go from here. I'd like to meet up with her, but I'm not sure if I dropped the ball on this. I'm not too experienced with these matters, so how would you suggest I recover from it?