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Did I drop the ball on this? (And how can I recover?) (11)

1 Name: R : 2009-06-01 17:14 ID:Mhy1D5Yl

I met this girl at a party this past weekend. It seemed like we hit it off alright, danced together, she took a photo of the two of us, we exchanged contact info, I was pleased.

According to her, it was the first or second party she'd been to and she really wasn't there that long I don't think. She left somewhere after we had danced and I saw her sitting around looking kind of bored after that (though I was occupied with friends at the time) and then I saw her take off (though she did take the time to stop a phone conversation I was having to say goodbye).

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2 Name: Ryuuchi : 2009-06-01 19:22 ID:eUUuR9Wn

Did you say: Well, if you have any free time, let me know so we can get that coffee together.


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3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-06-01 21:42 ID:IRZbT4FZ

I don't think you dropped the ball. If I were you I would just continue the mailing and get to know more about her, what are her interests, tastes, etc. This will be helpful later to organize outings and activities with her.

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4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-06-02 04:34 ID:BSYPSnDS

what >>2 and >>3 said

5 Name: R : 2009-06-02 05:30 ID:Mhy1D5Yl


Thanks for the advice/confidence boost!

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6 Name: knowing : 2009-06-02 10:22 ID:WYNCmbTb

Don't sound too eager about it. Casual with maybe a slight hint of your anticipation if you really have to, but make sure that you make her want to go with you, hook her in.

7 Name: Ryuuchi : 2009-06-02 21:57 ID:eUUuR9Wn

Take her mind off the things that she's busy on. The things that she mentioned to you: A lot of homework and part time job.

Maybe, ask her out? Give a her good time on your company with her.

8 Name: R : 2009-06-04 09:30 ID:Mhy1D5Yl


Well because I already asked about going out for coffee once before (and not too long ago) I'm unsure how long to wait too. Obviously I don't want to seem too eager, but it'd be nice to be able to meet up soon (I'm much better with face to face conversation than texting and what have you).

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9 Name: popoko : 2009-06-04 12:47 ID:znwfudOc

when are you going to meet her?

10 Name: popoko : 2009-06-04 12:49 ID:znwfudOc

so when are you going to meet her?

11 Name: Payton : 2009-06-05 01:05 ID:jorJHFGU

I would say call her, not right away, too much too fast is scary for a girl, but a phone call, even if it is a short one, is nice to receive rather than a text that you can sit there and think of the perfect thing to say before sending it.