NICE GUY SYNDROME IS BULLSHIT!
Girls, please confirm! This has been tormenting me for almost a year now, but I refuse to be a coward for any longer! I refuse to live a monk to avoid disappointment and heartbreak! I refuse to lie to myself and say that I don't want a girlfriend! That I don't need one to be happy!
Nice guys. Nice guys are those people, in my understanding, that have the same desire as any base, common man, or alpha male, which is, to fuck a girl. That is their highest desire. They wish to fuck them and then leave them. Or use them for sex for extended periods of time and then not care about them, etc.
I'm a nice guy and I don't believe in love. I don't expect me to fall in love with a girl or a girl to fall in love with me. I have bad luck with girls so it doesn't even matter to me. I'm happy right now but not enough to be fully happy, you know what I mean? I can get all the things that I want in my life but there is one thing I can't get and that is falling in love with a girl of my dreams.
"Nice guys. Nice guys are those people, in my understanding, that have the same desire as any base, common man, or alpha male, which is, to fuck a girl. That is their highest desire. They wish to fuck them and then leave them. Or use them for sex for extended periods of time and then not care about them, etc.
They are just weaker males, and so have to resort to trickery and guile to attempt to get with someone."
I know nice guys that have girlfriends... so it has to be possible... the only thing I can't figure out is how did they do it...
I'm pretty sure most guys want to fuck a girl. We're human and we have needs.
Conclusion: There is no such thing as a nice guy.
While we're on this topic, one of my pet peeves is when guys say that they are a "nice guy". Usually they are quite the opposite and are selfish and self centred. Real nice guys are ones that you hear about from other people. They don't have the need to tell everyone that they are nice, they are modest about it, and generally the word gets around that they are a nice guy.
> Girls, please confirm! This has been tormenting me for almost a year now, but I refuse to be a coward for any longer!
"Nice guys finish last"
It's a quote that always been ringing my ears.
You consider yourself nice. You said so in the first sentence of the paragraph. Contradict much?
Not sure what you're trying to contribute to this thread.
Oh I consider myself a nice guy. But I think it is a worthy to note that nice does not mean weak.
I am nice. I look out for my friends, help others in need. I don't start drama. I don't fuck girls and then leave them. I am a nice guy.
Not sure? In contribution, I'm just saying that besides fuck a girl. Don't guys want to be with someone they want to be with? Even for the rest of their lives? I mean, a "nice guy" can get a girl. Besides being the nice guy. A guy, like >>13 said, confidence in actions that we part take. So all we need to do is be yourself, right? As I hear, girls go for personality?
>>2 After reading this, I must ask you where you rank yourself as a man? To equivocate nice guys with scum, saying that nice guys have to use trickery and guile for the main purpose of using a girl and leaving, I believe that you have your opinion wrong. True nice guys do think about having sex with the girl and all true, but to say that's all there is to it, doesn't scratch the surface. Nice guys do care about the girl, they do have higher desires than just having sex with women, and they aren't always the weaker males.
I just think it is cowardice on the guys part. They are too afraid to ask out the girl, too afraid to offend her, too afraid to risk anything. Thus they are stuck and find someone to blame for their plight. They blame assholes for ruining their chances, giving a bad name for men, because after all they are the perfect man for "doing no wrong." Really though the "nice guy" didn't take a chance and rather gathering the courage to do something about it, they remain cowards and complain in secret.
I am a mean motherfucker stating; we are not swans.
I know a nice guy.
Nice guys do find girls. It just takes longer, because nice guys don't tend to rush (however, they can be rushed). The problem with nice guys is that if they go out with a trash girl, it gets ugly. A normal guy would just dump such girls, nice guys will go at extraordinary lengths to preserve the relationship.