For various reasons, I can't like a boy that I'm starting to develop feelings for. One of the many reasons are because he's not going out with anyone but there's a girl I know who likes him too, and I don't want to hurt her (and she knows that I know that she likes him; practically everyone does).
get another obsession :3
>>2 is right. You need to meet other people, and find other people to like. Also, reduce exposure to him, even if you don't need to flat out ignore him.
This being said, I think you girls are forgetting one side of the equation: the guy... Is he at all interested in the other girl? In you? He also has his part to play here, you can't just distribute guys among girls ^_^
mm good idea, >>3!
I'm pretty sure he's interested in her. For various circumstances (which are kinda similar to mine), he's not allowed to date but he's always hanging out with her and stuff. And I'm pretty sure he's not interested in me: I told him once that a guy that I wasn't really interested in was bothering me, and he told me to give him a chance! -_-;
I think you souldn't give it much thought. You know, the more you try to forget, the more you think about it.
There are more things to focuse on, anything will do. If you really aren't that into him yet, you should be fine!
thank you >>5!
Ah but it's so hard >w<
but nonetheless, I'll give it my all.
thank you! :D
who cares about the other girl
just grab that boy and make him YOURRRRS
Aw, don't break the other girl's heart!
just let him go.
go watch some tv, run, etc. to get your mind off him.
if you really want to stop liking him, well.. you can't really..
You'll get over him in time.
(lets forget about the other girl for now..) ask him out! It's a win win situation. If he rejects you, you'll stop liking him eventually, and if he likes you back, that's good too.