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HELP WITH FIGURING THIS OUT? (12)


1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-06-23 03:27 ID:Y6zSsLV2

Someone please help me sort this out.

There was this guy. We go to a language class together.
We never really saw of spoke to each other till one fine day, we did.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-06-23 06:01 ID:fDEp0fba

Maybe he's got other things on his mind.

Just talk to him. "Hey, you've been acting different lately." Is that so hard?

3 Name: Ryuuchi : 2009-06-23 06:06 ID:NDsYyB4p

>>2
Like >>2 said. Why won't you try and ask that question? It's not that hard to ask what is on someone's mind, don't ya think?

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4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-06-23 13:16 ID:lF9jIn4O

>>2
>>3 Okay I'll do that. But do you think he'll open up?
I'll keep you posted on what happens though.
Thanks!

5 Name: Ryuuchi : 2009-06-24 03:51 ID:NDsYyB4p

He should, just hope he will otherwise he's hiding something form you or he has something or someone troubling him. A lot of reasons you know but still you gotta talk him out of it. Communication is the key for a relationship, like I always said.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-06-24 05:11 ID:7J+vHShU

Also remember that some guys are just assholes at heart.

I have one friend that can be a really nice guy at times, but when it comes down to it he is nothing short of one of the worst assholes I've ever met in my life. :\

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-06-24 14:20 ID:VSSSunhb

>>5

> Communication is the key for a relationship, like I always said.
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8 Name: Ryuuchi : 2009-06-24 22:21 ID:NDsYyB4p

>>7
Oh? Communication isn't the key then? Would you care to elaborate with me?

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-06-25 02:36 ID:0WzOoml0

>>8

I am not >>7, but I agree that communication is the key. It just can't solve everything. There's this mental rolodex that we all have and different things mean totally different things for different people. The guy from this story may be a jerk, may be a good guy who's trying to make her not like him, may be thinking that she doesn't like him as a guy but only a friend and that pisses him off, or may be a jerk again. I honestly doubt that he will admit what's bugging him and there's definitely something bugging him.. normal people do have jerk episodes but always for a reason. So, >>1 I'd say just ask him but try to not reveal (at least not too obviously) that you like him.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-06-25 04:16 ID:kdGriVAC

>>5 I agree with you. There haven't been many moments which he opened up to me; Because I never asked :P I'll try.

>>6 Oh yes, I know.

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11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-06-25 08:52 ID:VSSSunhb

>>8
I never said communication wasn't important. In fact, I agreed that OP should talk to him. I said "You should practice what you preach". This means that if you, Ryuuchi, give others advice, you should follow it too. You tend to splurt out a lot of fluff and nice sounding principles on this board, but you don't seem live by them.

12 Name: Ryuuchi : 2009-06-25 21:51 ID:NDsYyB4p

>>11
I don't live by them but is it wrong to give them an advice like that to them? I mean, even I don't seem to live by them can't I help with the best of my knowledge and abilities to help out someone? I'd like to help out with others and it has nothing to do with me between the people I help out with the words I preach. I believe that so.

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