Return - Entire thread - Last 10 posts

OKAY GUYS I NEED HELP!!!! (19)


1 Name: Hopeless_Cause : 2009-06-29 02:36 ID:9/SZHnqx

I'm new at the whole posting thing. Yeah. So I really need you guys' help! A.A I've heard you all give really great advice and I would love to hear some of it! And BTW I'm a girl.

My love life is literally hopeless. I know I'm young and yadda yadda. But a little romance shouldn't be THIS hard to get. D:

Entire post...

2 Name: Red : 2009-06-29 09:57 ID:UMno9DrR

May I ask what grade or age you are? It would help if I knew what age-group I'm dealing with.

And what do you mean when you say you feel you are 'trapped away from everyone, behind a glass wall?'

3 Name: Hopeless_Cause : 2009-06-29 15:20 ID:9/SZHnqx

Well, I'm almost 14. I turn 14 in 26 days. I'm going into 9th grade. Yes, I know a lot of you are going to say things like I'm too young to worry about such things and blah blah blah.

I just want a little romance in my life. What girl doesn't?

Entire post...

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-06-29 16:54 ID:KfQLcS/V

>>1

>>So here's my dilima. I have no idea how to move on. It's obvious that they're out of reach, but I don't know how to get over it.
Entire post...

5 Name: Hopeless_Cause : 2009-06-29 17:50 ID:9/SZHnqx

Well, maybe I'll have luck in High School. But my current problem, of to which I was informed, this moring, is that guy # 1 likes me back too, just not enough.

Wow. This is seriously starting to bother me.

6 Name: OTL : 2009-06-29 18:06 ID:BA+yvc7q

Maybe you're focusing too much on this love thing right now.

It's not bad that you're trying to find some romance right now, but don't let guys completely rule your life :D. I say this as a fellow female.

Entire post...

7 Name: Hopeless_Cause : 2009-06-29 19:12 ID:9/SZHnqx

I suppose your right OTL but... I dunno, I guess it's just hard. I mean, I have to get good grades for my mom, be perfect for my teachers, console my friends. I have nothing for myself.
I guess I'll take your advice for now. I have to save up for a cosplay me and my friends are doing.

Entire post...

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-06-30 23:28 ID:O1Kgum+t

>He doesn't know I like him. Or that I'm a girl, for that matter.

I'm curious about how that can be?

9 Name: Hopeless_Cause : 2009-06-30 23:36 ID:QNiZqSgH

8,

He acts like I'm just another one of the boys. Just another friend.
TT.TT

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-06-30 23:45 ID:O1Kgum+t

Love relationships are uncertain endeavors, so you always need to be willing to risk. Nevertheless, I think you would have less problems if you got to know better the person you are interested in before you start a relationship with him. It's helpful to know what are his interests, character, his views on things, how he reacts when he's irritated or angry, etc. And for this, you need to spend quite some time with him, which means that you don't start the relationship straight away, and that you must have enough common interests to do activities together even though you're not in a relationship.

Entire post...

11 Name: Hopeless_Cause : 2009-06-30 23:48 ID:QNiZqSgH

10, that was amazing. Thank you! <3
But I guess your right. It's back to the Love Drawing board for me T.T Ratz...

12 Name: Mr Write : 2009-07-04 18:02 ID:B+qf7Y+I

>>10

I agree, though qualities, flaws and such aren't nearly as important to learn about as their heart...

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-07-27 08:49 ID:frHJwV91

"Every girls dream, a NICE GUY"

No offense, but I lol'd hard.

Entire post...

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-07-28 04:43 ID:Mvx5ttib

Blah, focus on friends during Junior High. You can go boy-crazy when in High school; just make sure you don't compromise your studies/grades. Romance just isn't worth it at that age, in my opinion. Wait for the seed of maturity to bloom, so that you might be able to maintain a fun, healthy, and long relationship.

15 Name: secret Admirer : 2009-08-18 14:00 ID:LLQbhcdD

i agree with 14.... i'm sure there are plenty of guys out there that will treat you better than the guys at ur school.
I think u shouldn't rush into relationships too soon.

16 Name: Keitaro : 2009-08-19 00:19 ID:rFjJsdG6

You know rather than focusing too much on finding the right guy and having the right relationship you should worry about other things since your still young and you have so many things to learn and if you push yourself too hard you'll end up hurting yourself.

17 Name: Not_ A_Hopeless_Cause_Anymore : 2009-09-07 00:51 ID:0KZnswSn

Hey guys, it's been a while!!!
[Yes the name is different]
Sorry I haven't checked in, my internet got shut off for a while.
-.-'

Entire post...

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-09-08 15:52 ID:znTXvK3L

Don't search, just find.

If you search you tend desperatly clasp anyone who seems vaguely likable. Which often only leads to dissapointment. I'm not sayig finding will be a 'love at first sight thing' either. But sometimes after months of knowing someone you suddenly realize you him/her.

Entire post...

19 Name: Not_ A_Hopeless_Cause_Anymore : 2009-09-17 22:09 ID:E4WJqsP7

>>18

Thnks, but I know people think people are to young to date at this age, but we really aren't. We feel the need to have love too.
But still, thank you. I does help with the whole don't search, just find thing.

Entire post...