How would you judge me, then?
You may be right, I don't have the best job in the world so I won't feel bad about leaving it, although it might be difficult to find a better one in a declining economy.
Given the position I'm in, there's really no turning back now. Unless she decides she no longer wishes to continue. I don't believe anything lasting will come of this (but the age difference is a minor issue here considering all I have and have not mentioned), unless she makes some serious changes in her lifestyle.