I realize that this is a long read, but I have a lot to get off of my chest and maybe this story will encourage other basement dwellers.
I finished high school a couple of months ago and started college classes a couple of weeks ago.
After graduation I pretty much cut off most ties to my old friends. I still keep in touch with a few because they’re the few who ever really meant anything to me. It’s made me kind of lonely, but at the same time I realize that most of them have nothing with me.
The next day, a girl in my class told me to eat lunch with her and her friends. She was cute, but I thought that she was too good of a kid for me to really have any fun with her. I thought little of it and sat with them for a bit before fucking off by myself to go have a smoke. Two guys went with me and she tagged along too.
I rolled my own that day, she asked to see them and asked in her alluring Luna Lovegood-esque British accent if I ‘rolled.’
One of the guys was like… three years younger than her and I still don’t understand how he finished high school at 16. The other had slightly camp tendencies and was obviously friendzoned by her. After a few drinks they’re both out of it.
Sitting across from each other, we cracked a few jokes and had light conversation.
A few days later, we had a test. To blow off some steam, we all went downstairs and killed a pack of cigarettes (in the last week without class I haven’t had a single smoke). The other two guys kinda got a clue and left to play ping pong, leaving us alone to converse for more than an hour.
We were sitting side by side, all the while, she kept moving closer and closer to me, touching me, blushing. I was more preoccupied with confusion, wondering how the hell I’d gotten to this point so quickly. But I enjoyed it.
We talked about everything that could come to either of our minds for hours. I finally had to give up at 4 and go to bed, but I now know a girl who I can talk with about almost anything, and she trusts me enough to open up to me.
She’s as close as a girl can get to being perfect. Spontaneous, stunningly attractive, and an intellectual rival to me.
Seems to me that you are doing fine, and that you should just go with the flow. What's the point of worrying about problems, even before they appear.
Anyways, problems will inevitably appear, it's part of the maturation process of a relationship. And you'll have to deal with them then and only then. Until that time, enjoy your time, and make some good memories, experiences and discoveries.
Yeah, I think you're doing good too. If things happen naturally, you should let them and not start planning and making extrapolations. Just go with the flow, it'll be fine.
There's been more development.
I was chatting with her, and said a few unintentionally insensitive things. She seemed pissed.
In order to try to explain myself, I told her to google the 'INTJ' personality type. I said that it explained a lot of things about me and how sometimes I'm weird and callous without intending to be that way.
Keep us posted, it will be interessing to see how this develops ^_^
We were chatting in the middle of the night yet again.
I'd just gotten home at 1 AM, I still wonder if she was online hoping to talk.
Anyways, as we shifted through random topics (she kept sending me random news links) we got to talking about each other.
This will be my last entry before I gtfo.
Monday, we went out for lunch. One of the guys in my math class tagged along (dick) so it was pretty awkward. My sarcasm pissed her off and when we left the restaurant. she just walked away without saying a word. I apologized later on an SMS and my phone's battery died. She thought I went off to some nightclub to pick up a random slut. She had a guy call me (I was drunk) at 1 to check up on me. It was weird but we worked it out.
We fell asleep in each other's arms.
We woke up at dawn, had a small snack, and smoked more weed and just kinda spaced out with each other for hours.
We awoke in the afternoon, went downtown and had some lunch, and sat in traffic for two hours the way back to my place.
I had to make my way to my parents' house though, so she had to take the train and a cab home.
Damn, she sounds like an awesome gal. Good catch there, make her happy and be happy with her.
Just curious though when you say "we just let things kinda flow from there" how far things actually flowed... :P
Great to see how well things went for both of you! Thanks for giving us a follow up and best of luck for the development of your relationship.
sounds to me like it is not her first time smoking weed and she's using you for free drugs. good luck on the happiness of your new relationships.
Valid argument, sir.
Please excuse me while I call her to tell her to fuck herself with the remnants of a shattered bong because you believe that she's using me for free grass.