I don't even know how to start properly but I have to get this off my chest. Since I was 17, I engaged in long-term relationships, with little to no breaks in between. I was quite happy with each of this girls but there was always other girls I wanted. They used to be very attractive and seemed to like me too, but I didn't do more with them than hold hands or cuddle while drunk. I was pretty fixated on them so often, I caught myself thinking about them rather than thinking about my current girlfriend. Each of these girls kind of came and went, but I still have contact with most of them, so I never really forgot them.
Probably both. At some point you'll have to choose between your "multiple interests" personality or being engaged in an exclusive long-term relationship. These can't work well together. Either you reinforce your self control, or you give up on having that kind of relationship.
I don't know. Can you control your dreams and what they do to you?
It's normal to show interest in more than one girl. Whether you follow up on that or not is a different issue, which is something only you can decide, depending or not it clashes with your other interests.
>>1 here. It happened again, I became obsessed with a girl from college. I went to a party the other night and spent much time talking to her. She even gave me her number. Now i dreamt of her the third night in a row and I can't wait to see her tomorrow.
this is what i say if ur current relasionship i seriouse then dont worry about it but im not tryin to say dat cheating is alrite ethier
OP here again. This seems to be the only place I can get this off my chest, so… sorry if this bores you.
Look, forget about everything I wrote, because it is over with her[my first love] and I want to start a new [love]-life.
But you know things like this are impossibly to forget. It will be always in me, so please understand.