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1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-10-17 18:00 ID:ASQQ44X8

Hello, guy from "how to approach a shy girl?" and "the soccer girl" here, I think I've found a girl that I actually am interested in. She plays video games and is attractive, two qualities I find important in a woman.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-10-17 22:05 ID:Heaven

>>1

>I don't think anything really intimate could happen with people walking in and out of the living room to go upstairs.
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3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-10-18 02:30 ID:UBiQgFfR

Sorry, just to clarify, are you the same guy from Soccer Girl?

I think first, talk more with her in class, get her msn, and ask her about her other interests. You can definitely take her smile at you as being a good sign. I think once you start the conversation rolling, give it maybe a couple of days, and you can start to ask what she's doing at lunch, under the pretense of showing her a new video game, or just "do you mind if I have lunch with you?". If you chicken out you can always say "cool, I'll see you after in class".

4 Name: D : 2009-10-18 20:39 ID:klQzWB/H

Man, all your threads are like this... are you sure you even LIKE this girls?

I mean, this looks like you actually need to communicate us that you like girls. Like some kind of lack-of-attention thing.

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5 Name: 43 : 2009-10-18 21:42 ID:Heaven

>She plays video games and is attractive, two qualities I find important in a woman.

I stopped reading here

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-10-19 02:56 ID:ASQQ44X8

>>4
It's a combination of the two really. I've got an over-inflated ego and I'm damn proud of it, but I've also never had a girlfriend and am incredibly lonely.

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7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-10-19 03:10 ID:ASQQ44X8

One more thing to add: how do I avoid the dreaded "friendzone"?

If I just invite her over to play videos games then...well...she'll just be a girl I play video games with. I have absolutely no skills at flirting, teasing, or kino, which I understand are all pretty damn important.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-10-19 03:21 ID:HjBQFMhn

I'm not familiar with avoiding the friendzone, as I've never been friendzoned, nor have I approached the friendzone, but what would make sense to me, fwiw:

Show real interest in her, and don't be a big fat pussy. And don't be a gross stalker psycho either.

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9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-10-20 12:54 ID:MZFcGIWn

Oh god. Shit, confident guys don't worry about being friendzoned. Especially if they're as confident as you claim to be. I find it very hard to believe that an attractive, smart, cool, confident guy has never had a girlfriend before, despite being so desperate for one. There's got to be some catch. Like, gee...maybe, just maybe, you're overestimating yourself. I think deep down you know this as well, otherwise why else would you be asking for advice?

10 Name: D : 2009-10-20 14:25 ID:5Z9zU/ZX

>>6

Well, you do really are married with that clique of the "smart/lonely/cool kid" man. And you overcompensate this flaw with... wtf? Another Flaw? You are trying to be cool by being all Ego here, but I think, the sad truth is that you are just lonely.

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11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-10-20 18:13 ID:8yOr+P7F

>>10
Dude, it's self-esteem. Stop butchering the word, please (even if it makes a funny unintentional joke because self-esteem is a driving power).

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12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-10-21 14:42 ID:fxuNYkEv

>>10
>>11

Nah, it's not an issue of self-esteem or anything like that. I'm confident but I literally have zero experience with women, I was just wondering if you guys could give me some tips on what kind of things I should do to avoid the friend zone.

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13 Name: ratzz : 2009-10-21 15:02 ID:FjxuJ2B5

this is what i thinkbecuase ive kinda been there. your givin ur self 2 much credit for the quite cool guy part, an if you dont wanta be in the friend zone invite her for games at ur house an she might get you 2 come 2 hers then invite her to movies or out 2 eat ps im using my phone dats why this is bad type

14 Name: Soujiro : 2009-10-22 20:48 ID:8qK+nr3P

Let me give you a tip.
Dont loose your time. Something similar was happening to me. the girl liked anime, videogames etc. I like that. i had a lot of time to invite her but i was scare and i never did it. when i wanted to do invited her was too late for me. she was gone....

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15 Name: D : 2009-10-23 00:23 ID:klQzWB/H

>>11

Hehe, sorry, I'm a foreign speaker... or typer... or whatever. English is not my mother language, sorry. [Also, my spellchecker puts it like "Self-Steam", so...]

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16 Name: Soujiro : 2009-10-23 00:42 ID:8qK+nr3P

Dont worry D, you are not the only. my first languaje is not english too.

17 Name: ratzz : 2009-10-29 04:36 ID:97DOeLxl

no update?

18 Name: D : 2009-11-07 08:15 ID:klQzWB/H

Maybe...

a) OP is actually doing something about his relationship with gamer girl... NAAAH!

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19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-11-09 03:06 ID:9W/CgbgR

>>18

Yes, it's choice, I went back to my old thread:

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20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-11-23 19:45 ID:Ssr0P3WL

Haha, you guys are gonna hate me for switching again like this but I think I'm going with Gamer Girl. Now instead of criticizing my decisions, please give me some sound advice!

I was thinking of inviting her over to play vidya games at my friend's house where there's a LAN party type thing going on. I mentioned it was going on and that's how I got her number, so she's definitely interested.

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21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-11-24 13:17 ID:Heaven

>>20
lol, seriously dude. lol.
Invite to gaming session, propose coffee outside afterwards, make discussion, flirty flirt, blah blah blah. But more important: grow the fuck up.

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