I just got together with an awesome girl.
The thing is, one of her best traits is also one that worries me.
She's one of those people who loves adventure and new experiences. She likes doing things so she can says she's done something before, and seems to enjoy 'collecting' experiences.
I love this in her, but I also can't help worrying about stuff like 'will she cheat on me when she goes on an exchange programme just cos she wants an experience of a fling with a hot european guy?'
Would expressing my concerns make me seem like a wimpy schmuck and just make things worse? After all we all know that restricting someone only makes them more determined to break the restrictions.