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Girlfriend is self-destructive, depressed. (7)


1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-10-21 18:41 ID:X3HFSUW8

I feel like venting onto 4channel right now.

I have a long distance relationship with my Girlfriend that has a lot of problems. She often gets very upset and impossible to communicate with whenever she can't have her way as far as what is true and what is not.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-10-21 19:44 ID:VN9tyDSh

What a trainwreck,... it's hard to be positive with the info you are giving us. Your girlfriend comes off as immature, manipulative, energy sucker, blackmailer, etc... By indulging into her, you not only are not helping her, but continue to lock her into this deadlock of passive-aggressive way of relating to others.

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3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-10-21 20:31 ID:REa45qwM

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I definitely need to sort myself out in some fashion, but I don't desire someone clingy as much as I desire the kind of affection that I do get from her. We are friends and we mesh very well sexually, that isn't easy to find. I guess this isn't so much me excusing why I want to be with her still as much as it is filling in the details of why I think there are positive aspects to the relationship.

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4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-10-21 20:59 ID:VN9tyDSh

>I desire the kind of affection that I do get from her.

A kiss and three punches? Methinks this kind of relationship doesn't work in the long and short run.

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5 Name: Mr Write : 2009-10-21 23:07 ID:gFhPN0TL

Just go, man. Selfish people like this aren't worth it, trust me. I'm guessing you've been in this relationship too long to remember what love is supposed to be like, huh?
There may have been some good times, but anyone can have their moments. Heck, even Hitler did :P

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-11-17 10:48 ID:piYH7TTW

if she "loves" you then she will change, sometimes you gotta get some balls and tell them what you want.

if you've been in a long relationship it's time for her to trust you and let you in, if not i don't think her "control" will lead you to happiness

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-11-17 11:05 ID:FZtQd6PT

>I pointed out that this is because seeing her Brother was more important than being with me in that month of December.

Well I see some manipulation on your part, maybe you are as bad as each other.

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