I'm 17 and I'm pretty sure I've found what people call, "the one". She is absolutely terrific and we are deeply in love. I've been told that I shouldn't stay with her for various reasons (she's not particularly attractive, she isn't particularly smart, she's not particularly anything anyone would really find desirable) but there's just something that keeps me totally attached. We share a fair bit in common interest-wise, but we're independent enough that there are always new things to talk about. I met her when I was 12 and she was 13, and even though it took me more than three years to start talking to her, let alone ask her out, we totally clicked. We've been talking about going to the same college next year, and as long as she chooses one that's within twelve hours from our home town, I've pretty much been game.
People only regret when they lose it. Don't make the wrong decision. These temporary fun won't be the one next to you when your in your eighties.
is anyone else really annoyed by this thread?
this is from what I learned pretty normal to want to be with other people while dating someone but just realize this you found someone awesome while most of us here and most of the rest of the world is incredibly lonely so just be happy with what you have because its better than nothing. don't screw it up enjoy what you have
Why don't you openly talk about it with her?
It's common for couples that start young and that only know sexually one person to become curious about trying with other people. So it's probable that she'll have the same feelings, if not now then later in college or after college.
Well as long as you don't mind her having a lot of penises other than yours inside her, cumming inside her, giving her orgasms better than you could, showing her just what she was missing out on when she settled for you. Don't be surprised when you find out lots of guys would like to sex your girlfriend up.