Recently I've had kind of a hard time getting back in the game. I'm not really bad with girls. Its not that I don't have confidence I mean I'm not fugly and shit. But where the hell do you start again? I know that sounds really lame and emo, but I thought that either I'd get some good advice or told to grow a sack hopefully in a constructive way. Any advice?
start talking with girls. that is where you always start.
Just be friendly, don't get all heavy with the flirting as soon as you meet them but a little doesn't hurt.
One thing that's good to remember is to be an upstanding person to everyone, not just the girl you are going for, she may see, or hear about anything you do and girls tend to rely on other people's appraisals of a person before they think about dating them.