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1 Name: nerd alert : 2009-12-07 11:22 ID:7qbox1tA

Okay. as of late, I started to have a crush on one of my classmates. we've been in the same class for about a year already.
We frequently talk, but all school-related stuff.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-12-07 14:17 ID:Heaven

Just mention something, gosh.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-12-08 10:20 ID:AiS7r7dA


Sounds like you need to get to know her better. What's she like? I'm sure she has more interests than just theater. What does she enjoy doing? Perhaps you could do an activity with her together.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-12-09 13:42 ID:39e9U4x3

Talk about sex. It's a topic that interests just about anyone, and if she reacts poorly to it then she has a bad relationship with it or isn't mature enough for it, and you won't be getting much from her so you can move on. You don't need to go into gory details but mentioning light things (I hear so and so slept with so and so) can start it up. Believe it or not, girls are interested and like to talk about sex.

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5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-12-09 16:40 ID:bU/L7S8J

Do not do what >>4 said, that is a sure fire way to a sexual harassment suit. In stead do what 2&3 have said, small talk it is the key every thing.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-12-09 18:39 ID:Heaven

You probably live in a sad, sad country.

There is nothing wrong with talking about sex, unless you're excessively creepy about it.

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7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-12-10 08:51 ID:DLKIVKaM


Buddy, how do you think your mom and pop made you? Do you think one day he tripped while taking his pants off and fell on your mom who was lying down to do some leg lift exercises in the nude?

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8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-12-10 14:22 ID:Y6ie2LHb


Good advice in moderation. You don't want to come off as though you have a one track mind either, only talking about sex is as bad as never talking about it.

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9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-12-10 18:14 ID:D8RK25FX

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-12-13 07:13 ID:FggrQ9ip

>>6, >>7
I don't know what part of ghetto you come from, but over here, very rarely do our conversations with strangers lead from talking about the weather, to- sex. Unless you're looking for a hoe.

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11 Name: nerd alert : 2009-12-19 02:53 ID:7qbox1tA

hey, thanks for the replies people.

thing is, where I come from, talking about sex is bordering on creepy/sexual harassment.

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