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People who are not in love, gather! (9)


1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-12-11 20:19 ID:3zoBkfTV

Sometimes I think it would be nice to be in love, even if it was one-sided. I dunno, somehow I feel a little dull not having someone I like at all. But most people probably think one should be lucky not to be painfully in love. And thinking rationally about it, it also seems better to me.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-12-11 20:39 ID:oZLkwewR

An complicated situation, to be sure. Good and bad feelings abound.
I couldn't say for sure I've ever been in love, but there's a state where I understand love songs, and a state where I couldn't care less.
I guess unrequited love is better than never feeling anything at all.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-12-12 07:21 ID:uMyTaqwG

reporting for duty!

in a relationship, but doesn't really feel like one sometimes.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-12-12 21:36 ID:Y6jHF5UC

>>3
That truly is a pitty

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-12-14 16:22 ID:yc76e+YN

>>1
One sided love is a drag. It takes it's toll on me after a while, all give and no take :(
I do have people that I find attractive and admire, but they'll never know.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-12-14 18:23 ID:QevMQL1b

>>4

>>3 here. yes it really is. 'slow dancing in a burning room' by john mayer sums it up more or less.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-12-14 23:40 ID:7QFfh301

Chalk another one up for being alone and missing being in love. It's been 4 months since my second girlfriend left. It's getting bad I've started making up imaginary people every now and then to dream about. I don't know about it anymore it seems like I could love anyone but at the same time I dont think I have the capacity to care that much anymore.

8 Name: Otakun : 2009-12-16 08:06 ID:0Ak4WZvg

Shouldn't this be on the Single's Rant thread? The new year is coming... try to make a change

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-12-16 08:42 ID:L+MCn5Oi

I for one, am not missing the feeling of one-sided love.
It makes me so counterproductive.

Spending so much time re-reading his comments. Re-phrasing the comments you type to him. Waiting for him to come online. And then waiting for him to initiate a conversation so that you don't let on. Listening to him talk about another girl. Feeling disconcerted/annoyed/disappointed when he doesn't reply. Reading too deep into his statuses. Always looking out for him before you sit down in class. The list goes on..

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