So I've been dating this guy ( we'll call him Ota-kun)for about 6 months now and I'm so head - over - heels in love with him. He's funny, sweet, a bit shy and he's very honest. I love him to bits >< We've decided to take the next step and move in together. Now we share similar interests especially anime and video games....however...i didn't know the extent of his love of anime, especially when it comes to the " H " stuff. I'll admit, I am a bit conservative. And I do get jealous when he plays his H-games. But I really want to understand him better.
Don't worry because I am otaku myself I know how he feels.
He loves you, that's for sure. Judging by the fact that he is an otaku it is most likely that he never loved anyone and nobody ever loved him.
So go on, don't worry...
Wow! Thank you all very very much.
#6 I will take your advice.
As another otaku(well more like art-school fuckhead anyway but it does not matter) who wants to help both of you is here.
Just because Ota-kun is an otaku his personality made him to pursue some strange and bizarre love decision. For a guy like him it is possible to have mutual relationship with a lesbian. Which is happened to me. But as for me I want to forget what happened and start new thing, which I am sure is the same with Ota-kun.
I'm back with a new update. I took the advice that you guys have given me, I actually surfed the net and got a cosplay outfit from one of his favorite anime shows >< I waited for him to come home....I thought he was going to be home early..but I ended up waiting for 2 hours hehe. Anyway, I'd never been so nervous. ( and when im nervous I tend to want to clean things...takes away the stress)
Oh~ I can understand why he laughed. It sounds like something silly that you'd see in anime... Plus, you were in that outfit. Don't worry, though!
If you can, you should keep us posted on this. Good luck!
from one otaku to another... that sounded really really mo-e...
you got my vote girl!
Play eroges with him
My No BS Assessment:
Men need porn. They do. Even if you fucked him three times a day and six times on sunday, he'd still need porn. I hate to say this on a friendly, family-type board but...
As a guy, I really gotta back this up. I have a healthy sex life, I love my wife a lot, but I still watch porn and masturbate. It really is exclusive to sex and romance; a lot of women just don't understand that. Either way, good luck to you. My advice is to seek compromise, but remember to try to be more open-minded yourself as well.
Guys are like that. Men do need porn. I don't know about human history but, men have the urge do spread their genes and the only way to do that without betraying our lovers, is to masturbate or watch porn or do both. It subdues that urge, that feeling. It's a natural almost animal like urge. That's why some men sleep around...I guess..I don't know. For the reason why he laughed I guess was that it does suit you,....I don't know. But that is a good thing it means he won't see you as one of those characters, but as his lover. You have nothing to worry about him preferring those anime characters to you. He won't compare you to those 2D girls, after all the real ones are so much better. It was a good effort, but don't get a refund yet, who knows in the future it might prove useful if you two role play a little to spice up your sex lives. O//////O so I hoped I help a little....but not as much as the others have.