lol. Here's the situation:
For Christmas I got some lingerie for myself, as a present to my boyfriend. While he seemed enthused about it at first, he also made a joke that for Christmas, he should get me a nice tie and a pair of men's shoes, which he could then put on for the purposes of taking off later. He also said that usually, it's the guy who buys the lingerie for his girlfriend as a present-- to the effect that what I did was highly out the ordinary, and kind of weird. I felt like an idiot and told him as much, though he said he was just joking, and reassured me that he liked the present a lot. I remain hesitant, but play along.
Update: And now that I've asked him if he would mind if I threw it out-- he said the decision was mine. But that he would hate to see it go to waste.
"I thought you hated it."
If I threw out my present to him, I mean. The lingerie.
How long have you been together? Sorry, I'm just wondering.
Anyway, you shouldn't make a big deal out of this, in my opinion. If you're going to continue to be pissed off at this, it'll probably only lead to drama.
Sounds harsh. I'll figure something out.
We've been together for over a year now. Is it showing?
Sort of, yes.
It may sound harsh, but if you're going to get frustrated over this, it'll probably lead to drama. And you would want to avoid that, no?
You guys been with each other for over a year. You should know by now the things that makes him upset. I bet you do understand why he's upset about you leaving the gift behind, though unintentionally.
I agree with >>4 to try to get over with it.