I've only found this "channel" a few weeks ago, after watching...that movie, u all know what I'm talking about. Anyways....I'm 27, currently working at a McDonalds....for now at least. I live with my sister and her husband sharing a two bedroom apartment. So...I worked at McDs for about...three months now. On my third day....I think.....is when I met her. A cute 19 yo studying to be a nurse community college girl. Well I think I like her.....but this is not the first time this has happened to me. Like from Jim Carey of Internal Sunshine....etc, once said "why do I always fall in love with every girl that gives me the least bit of attention". I'm a bit desperate for a relationship. I haven't been in a relationship since High School and it was a short one. Lets just say I didn't know what I had until it was over. So now a full adult I still don't know what to do, but I want to start. I like this McDs girl....just "like", I haven't passed the stage yet where I'm hearing love songs every time I see her. Also I only see her like once a week. cause she only works in the weekends and I work in the weekdays. Each week I'm starting to look forward to the weekends cause it's when I see her. I really want to get to know her BUT my main concern is....I really have nothing to offer her beside myself...and I'm not that great looking. I want to know is.....should I start/ask her out. Should we start as friends....but what if I stay in that category? Is it ok if I tell her up front and just say that I like her. I've set up so many scenarios in my head....but they are all unanswered. Frustration at myself is starting to take it's toll.Im becoming insane. So.....should I start and hope for the best....or don't even try, you'll only get hurt....or just start as friends and take the long....long....LLLOOOONNNNGGG road.
If you decide to befriend her, don't go overboard. Just drop some hints that you like her.
> Internal Sunshine
I stopped reading here because I couldn't stop laughing
start out as friends, work your way from there. Just don't take her to McD's on a big date. Find a nice coffee shop or small restaurant and see if she'd be interested in meeting you for a meal. If this is still in the friends stage then it doesn't even have to be expensive, a great plus! Good luck!!
I think in the beginning, I thought of that also just befriend her at first. But I am afraid I might lose her to someone else. I just found out the as well....according to our schedules...I will only see her an hour and half on one day in the weekends. I don't know if god hates me or anything...but I have the best of luck ever. But I will at least....I know I said at least. I will trying to be friend her in that short of time. Each day I'm starting to think I am falling for her more and more. I've been listening to some love music lately. Thank u guys, if this thread still alive I'll try to tell u guys what happens....maybe.
Oh come on, after all this good advice, psh. you'll be back for more...
^- ^ yup, and here I am. Not at work yet though....I'm off tomorrow and the day after. But on Sunday....we will meet and O_O I don't know what to do.....I don't know how to start a conversation...I mean what should I say to her other than a simple HI!. U know, But she did mention that she had a face book.....Maybe I should ask her about it....X______X I could see it now....(Hi! could I stalk you..eerr I mean can I have your face book address) -____- I don't have one maybe I should make one first......
Well it was Sunday yesterday.....so far nothing went on....I have to wait a week to see her again. I know where she lives because I have given her a ride home once before. I want to call her up and maybe ask her to just hang out...but I don't have her number..... Damn. I don't know if one of my other co-workers know her number. Maybe I should ask this other girl whom she talks to a lot. I think I have a plan....I'm going to pick up my check on Saturday The right time when she's about to go home. Maybe I'll offer her a ride and then ask her if there is a place where she would like to go.......MAYBE? I don't know........ what do you guys think.......-___-(I don't know what to do)
Go for it, Hideki. It seems like a pretty solid plan. You should ask her number directly though, not from her friends, a personal experience is better in my opinion.
Also, definitely make a facebook account now, so she wouldn't think that you made it just for her. You might find some of her interests from her profile there as well so that will help you with finding common interests. Good luck.
sigh ..... The one thing I didn't count on was that well, she already had a ride with one of our co workers..... -____- well at least....I got to see her. Anyways maybe I'll just ask her her number when I see her this weekend. I'll just ask her the reason would be if she would like to hang out sometimes. Cause really I have nothing to do in the weekends beside draw or go out just to walk and take photos of random things...... each fail account bring my hope lower and....lower....but I still like her enough to keep trying.