I'm 21 (well 20 at the moment but I'll be turning 21 this year) and sad to say, I never had a boyfriend before. I've been asked out twice in my life time and both have been rejected (the first one doesn't really count because that was back in Grade 7. The Second one was a friend of mine. I didn't really seem him anything more than a friend). I've been hit on quite a few times-- those guys were either too young or had girlfriends.
I think you should let love find you. And it will, don't worry. Just continue to have fun, try and get outside and meet new people, and you'll find somebody you like. Love isn't always an instant thing - falling in love is something that happens over time, with a person you like/are attracted to.
Yeah, I totally get what you are feeling. I am also 20 going onto 21. It just seems like recently, but i don't even have single friends anymore... All of my good friends are all dating and it feels pretty uncomfortable to go out with them anymore.
But like post 2 says... just wait it out sooner or later right?
OP, you're right about one thing: there is no special person out there. Best you can hope for is to find someone you can tolerate, and who can tolerate you. Mind you, I don't mean to make it sound like that's easy; most people don't even find that much.
I think it's important to note that the feeling most people call love (like butterflies in your stomach) is just a chemical reaction in the first months of any relationship. It's a nice extra, but not the whole foundation a relationship is built upon. I've known quite a lot of girls who thought something was wrong when that feeling faded away after some time and therefore broke up with their boyfriends and even went as far as thinking they are unable to have a long-term relationship.
>chubby (size 3
You're fine the way you are, believe me.
Love wouldn't care if you're size 3 or more you know. :D
Don't keep pressured by your friends and their boyfriends. Dont force anyone as your "love" onto you. Everyone find love one day. Fate is giving u the cards and u play them, even if there not as good as you want them to be. :P I had a really loved girl for a year, but live's strange thing and we parted. Now I'm alone for over 3 years and don't mind. btw I'm also 21 :D
If your friends have boyfriends, I'm pretty sure these guys must have some single friends of their own. Why don't you ask for some recommendations?
I believe that, while the "let love find you" belief works out sometimes, it shouldn't stop people from searching for what they want.