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I'm an evil bastard...and I need desperate advice. (complicated situation) (6)


1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-03-15 02:55 ID:H/QWaNs9

Man where do I start? Three years ago I met girl A, fell in love far too fast and basically thought she would be the one I would marry. But ultimately we fought too much, she "dumped" me many times when I did things not to her liking, like going to anime conventions. Slowly we were drifting apart, to the point we were on a status of "dating", even though we still loved each other.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-03-15 23:24 ID:SEPq9/0i

  1. Make sure you're worth the trouble, yes you. If you're gonna keep up being a "bad guy", stay away from serious relationships.
  2. Don't mind the mothers lack of consent (unless you agree she has a good point in you being a bad idea), she already have no say legally, and once B moves out she will have no say whatsoever. It's up to B to decide who she wants to be with, not her mother.
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3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-03-16 04:33 ID:H/QWaNs9

I'm OP. I have learned something very scary. girl B is a high functioning autistic girl, I never noticed but she told me recently. Which classifies her as a "mentally impaired" person. So long as she is under legal care of her guardian (mother) anything I do could be charged as statutory rape because the laws are written to make anything done, whether the person is competent or not, as coercion. And girl B told me today, sneaking in a call, that her mom and now her dad won't budge on this. Basically I could face legal trouble so the next time B calls I'll have to tell her that if we want this to work, we need to stop talking and give in to her mother's wishes until B is legally able to make her own. And honestly I'm willing to wait. But right now her parents have all the power and its not worth risking it. FML.

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4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-03-16 22:00 ID:SEPq9/0i

Wow that's what I call a plot-twist.
Well with this new information on the table, abide by the law. Good call. Seems like you really care about this girl, I respect that. And enough good will shown, perhaps her parents will also come to regard your interest in her as sincere.

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5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-03-23 07:07 ID:iblyU3FR

>>1 "For those of you who will go tl:dr, summary: I'm a bad guy, I grew distant with my first gf, met another special girl, "cheated" with her (even though i wasn't exclusive with girl a), told the truth, broke girl A's heart, and now I want to date girl B. And girl B is cool with it. I will have to wait a long time but I probably need the personal time."

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6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-03-25 00:21 ID:C422gjyc

Relationship A sucked anyway, with all due respect. Sometimes our relationship dies, and we're only too afraid, or perhaps too stuck in it to take the courage needed to bury it.

Even if nothing else comes out of this, girl B came into your life, at the very least, to help you break the chains of your old, zombie relationship.

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