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1 Name: lost in thought : 2010-03-17 07:42 ID:0GkRwBSy

hello! Well here goes going to make a long story short.
Been dating a guy for 18 mnths. Shared him with my kids and they love him as much as he says he loves them. We also work at the same place but MOT together. Months ago I noticed him talking to a coworker alot. Lately over the last few weeks he has been acting odd and distant. I logged into his email to find that from feb to just this past weekend he has been emailing her comments like calling her beautiful, has a smile that lights up the room and since she is recently single and that hopefully soon he will be to they can get together to help each other out.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-03-17 13:31 ID:BQjyIgDL

>Lately over the last few weeks he has been acting odd and distant.

Talk to him about it, tell him it seems like he has fallen in love with someone else.

3 Name: lost in thought : 2010-03-17 14:50 ID:0GkRwBSy

I have had that conversation all ready. He says I am crazy and laughs. Why does he have all other emails but mine for the longest time we both saved them all!!
he has hers from over a month ago and not mine from last week??

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-03-19 03:09 ID:6xyfEiG1

How much do you like confrontation?
If you can handle it, try goin to the coworker and asking her.
IF he did cheat, could you forgive him?

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-03-19 20:52 ID:RqvBXS0F

> logged into his email
> How can I confront him without revealing my source ???

Admit to him that you're a creep with no regard for boundaries. It's not like you can actually make this work.

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6 Name: lost in thought : 2010-03-20 06:16 ID:0GkRwBSy

I thought with a serious relationship there is NO boundries! NO secrets. Whatever happened to full honesty, trust and respect and of course communication

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-03-20 09:58 ID:/t9qhdcp



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8 Name: Azrael : 2010-03-20 16:09 ID:CN+J8gPG

besides, you two don't have a formal relationship you know....

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-03-20 18:55 ID:Heaven


you're breaking into his private email account and reading his personal communications
what does that have to do with trust or respect?

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10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-03-21 09:41 ID:z4zJYo6e

>and that hopefully soon he will be to they can get together to help each other out.

OP for god sake dump him before he dumps you.

11 Name: lost in thought : 2010-03-24 00:07 ID:0GkRwBSy

thanks all! I talked to her and him, she said nothing he lied so we are done now. He swears he still loves me but after how I felt and what I read obvious no trust on either side. So we are done.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-03-25 00:01 ID:6JylEpzA

It's better this way.
'Cause if he was in a situation to look for someone else while still being with you, it wasn't working out anyway.

Try seeing, for yourself, what could have led to this - did he go after her because he was dissatisfied with something, or was he just a common bastard? Answering these questions could be useful for your next relationship.