I need help. I'm trapped in this relationship which I brainlessly entered without much thought.
This relationship with this boy, A, started because i was feeling good that someone actually likes me. So i let him carry on.
brainlessly, not sure. just human :-)
just break up at once. You don't have to sit out this lie. Do what cannot be avoided anyways.
please for the love of god, do it face to face... at least be a decent person and tell him in person. And if you dont know what to say
"Lets just be friends"
Breaking up with someone is hard, especially for the first time. Especially when they didn't do anything wrong and the simple truth is that you don't love him. But you have to do it, for your sanity and his.
Do it face to face. I've always tried to break up with boys when we're in a situation where we can be apart from each other soon after the break up (eg. towards the end of a car ride home). Don't do it around friends or family, that's just rude. Chose a place where you will have relative privacy, so he won't feel embarrassed. However, if you expect him to react in an unpleasant way, do it somewhere semi-public.
Thanks guys. I'm just waiting for the perfect timing.. It doesn't help that we only can see each other once a week (we live 1 hour away from each other). I'm afraid that i couldn't find that perfect timing.
What's more, he is having his trials now. And soon his final exam. I still need to wait it out.
make your answers short,
don;t spend too much attention to him.
I personally, in that situation would prefer to just have it done quickly. Maybe you could use the whole living an hour away and only being able to see eachother once a week thing? Shit, a girl broke up with me because I had to go to school and work, so I was only able to spend 3days out of my week with her.