I really don't know how to talk about my problem ... I'am a 15 years old girl , since i grew up i completly changed , i dicoverd that boys are not my type , do you know what i mean ? i'am afraid to be a lesbian , everytime i do a relation ship with a girl it is like Oh ... a love story and until now i didn't find the perfect Friend xD my relationship with one of them doesn't really last for a long period
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What do you mean ??
what did u discovered that made u not interested in boys ? .. just let me say this not all boys are the same ...
just ask yourself .. Where do you find your true hapiness .. ?
is it being in love with the same sex .. ? or is it in a man that you are not interested ... you are afraid that you might be a lesbian .... but your still young .. you hav yet to met different kinds of man .. if only you can give me specific details on why you reached the conclusion that you are not interested in the opposite sex then I can give you a better opinion ..
Well it happend 4 years ago i fell in love with a boy ( I met him in a forum of discussion) he & i coudn't imagine our lifes without each other xD Beleive it was a true love then a huge problem happend which separated us , He was everything to me and to be honnest i'am a geek that's why he was everything to me so after the brokeup , i became a little bit sociable , i met her she was my first friend at school i didn't like her in the beginning ( She was a little Ugly ) then day after day we become more and more closer , she was like a soulmate i even started to have converstations with other , i fell in love with her after a year we fought , i felt that it was the end of my life like ( Game Over ) I cryed , i even had serious health problems .... until now i still think of her ... is this love ?? After my story with this girl i couldn't love any boy ... I loved Boys in past but now they're like girls in my eyes and girls are boys .....
My life has changed because of her , Now i can't even look at her !!
We are enemies ...
I would like to help you, but the truth is I can't even understand you. Is English your first language?
>Am i a lesbian ??
I might be wrong to say this .. but isn't it just beacuse your love with the boy whom you met in the forum didn't go well that you are unconciously trying to protect yourself to any man because there is a high possibility that the same thing might happen again in the near future >.. ? and suddenly the girl who became your first friend at school became a special person to you .. thinking that this girl will always stick by your side unlike the boy you met in the forum ? and after a little while ... you noticed that you fell in love her .. and because you fought over something .. it felt like it was game over for you ... right ? maybe it truly is love .. at times when you cant stop thinking of her .. how much you've wished that you were always by her side .... but you must first make up with that girl ... you know the saying that ... "You can only recognize how important something is when it is no longer in your grasp to take and to hold on?" my own version though .. lol .. but you might be thinking too much .. maybe you just really care for her as someone who you cannot live without .. maybe as a friend or as a lover .. now there are two questions that you must answer honestly ..
anyone to help me !!
>>7 No It's not ... ^^ I'am an arabian girl >< and my family is reserved that's why i'am afraid to be a lesbian this is the answer for your question .. i really want to know if i'am really a lesbian or not .... but i think that as u said that i'am bisxual ....
>>8 Well what you said is what i thought in the beginning
If thats the case .. what do you want to do ? Do you want to make up with her ? ... or because you might hate yourself if you realize that you are a true lesbian ... >>> ? Do you want to waste your time thinking how scared you would be if ever you will find the truth .. ? I know its important to think about things before you decide to do something .. but you know what .. ? You are just making yourself confused ... I think its more important to make up with your friend first .... then you can take your time and worry AAAAAALLLLLLLLLL!!!! night about the answer that you are trying to seek .... and it just might be ... the next time you see that girl .. is the moment you will understand your own feelings .