Would you tell? you love your girl and you really want to be honest, and you honestly had a night out that got a little too crazy at a strip club. would you tell?
depends what really happened.
if it was some dancer, nothing wrong, you prolly didn;t do shit. (even though, going to a stripclub while having a gf is asking for problems.)
I guess it all depends on details and situation.
Yeah, if I were raped then no.
if my boyfriend had done that, i would definitely want him telling me.
i would be a little upset at first, first of all, the fact of him going to a strip club is enough. i can give him a strip tease anyday. but if he cheated, of course i'd be angry but i'd let him explain himself because he deserves it.
Don't forget say is easier than done... Remember how the adults always said "just tell the truth and we will forgive you" then the next thing you know you're learning a "lesson"
I for one would want to know what made him do it. Usually people cheat when they are unhappy with something in their current relationship.
>"you love your girl and you really want to be honest"