Seriously, I suck at conversations. I can occasionally pick up a conversation about something around, but it dwindles quickly and then there's that silence. With my friends it's usually technical/games discussion evolving into something else, but I can't do it here.
I don't know, man. One of these days someone will make a flowchart for successfully navigating conversations with the opposite sex, and all our problems will be solved.
(I'd also settle for a Venn diagram illustrating common areas of interest)
I would also like to know. I have problem of being 'another girl' when I'm talking with the opposite sex and I suppose most of the time I am put in the friend zone because of this.
An Easy Way To Become A Good Conversationalist
Some time ago, I attended a bridge party. I don't play bridge - and
there was a woman there who didn't play bridge either. She had
(I guess you don't want the 12 other examples)
So if you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive
listener. To be interesting, be interested. Ask questions that other