I've been a lurker for quite a while, and have finally decided to post. I've met this girl that I'm quite fond of, we relate in terms of most things. The same music, films, fashion. It was really unreal. She has asked me out once, and we grabbed a coffee. There was chemistry, and my friends attest that when we are together, it's obvious that she reciprocates feelings for me. I recently asked her out and received a "maybe" answer, I've spoken to her since then, and she's evaded the topic. I have no clue how to procede. I'm lost. Any help you guys can offer would be much obliged!
she lost interest
Or she's playing 'hard to get',
in which case...
No enough info to get a good guess. How often have you talked to her? She could be stressed about something, or you could just be hounding her a bit too much. That can happen if your friends get you the ol' atta-boy.
If she's avoiding you completely, then she's completely lost interest.