December has come, and my tale will come to and end soon. Or is it just about to start? Haha. After 12 days, I will come to a standoff, I will confess to the girl I really love :)
But some background information for you guys! Half a year ago, I started to become (relatively) close with a friend of mine. We would go out and do fun things together. She's kinda the boy-ish type of girls and mostly has guy friends so it's something that feels natural and I don't really feel special about it. But come what may, after several weeks of spending time with her, I've come to appreciate her more and more and how she supplements me. We became something like best friends as we learned from each other more and more. I started to like her as a girl since then.
It's always your risk, isn't it? So just go on, try it and, if it doesn't work, you've still got a whole life ahead of you. If it does, enjoy it.
Good luck, and be sure to tell us when you have news!
Thank you. I was fully determined in the start that I will see through the end of this! Haha. I'm willing to post in detail for the next twelve days if you guys are interested.
This is sweet. And kind of close to my heart 'cos I'm a bit of a tomboy myself. I think no matter what kind of girl, we all want a little bit of romance, especially leading up to Christmas. Just don't make it overbearingly corny. For example, no grand gestures or cliches (stuff you see in the movies that apparently gets people hooked up). Keep it simple, and earnest. A night out where you usually have fun, to keep the atmosphere up. And a stroll is usually nice. Girls like strolls.
So how did it go?
Well, we just spent the 12 days as simple as we can while having fun. And in the end of it, I gave her these hair clips and asked for her to wear it the next day - in which if she did, that mean's a yes. As I was about to make my dramatic exit, she stopped me and we talked there right on the spot.
>I can't [love her] anymore.
See, this is exactly what I'm talking about. Our system is dumb.
I know lol. I mean, I still love her as she's a very important friend to me. But ever since she knew I love her, I can't even hug her or something anymore. I guess I mean that sort of physical intimacy. I've read your posts though, thumbs up to you sir.
Aw, it's too bad you couldn't take your friendship one step closer. But you are lucky, or rather fortunate, to still have that friendship at all! In which case I am happy for you, as you still have her support. She will even help you if you find someone else you think you could love!