>"Nothing happened, tried but she didn't want to."
She didn't want the drama. Learn from her choice!
The: "I liked her before he did." CRAP is irrelevant! Unless you wish to be in jail for rape; Respecting the Woman's freedom-of-choice to be with you (or not be with you) ‘carries more weight’ getting to the bedroom than the "I liked her 1st" crap.
>"Only know one person I would call a good friend"
A temporary bed-mate feels warm for a couple hours, BUT..
a few Good Friendships have longevity and will keep you HEALTHY, between temporary bed-mates.