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FUCK bitches. Get Money. That's it for now on. (13)

1 Name: pwned : 2011-03-29 06:07 ID:V5haK5M1

I met a really neat girl a couple months ago. We hit it off really well, immediately became close friends. It became apparent quickly that there was mutual romantic/physical attraction. As we progressed down that route, I realized she had a long distance boyfriend. I confronted her about it, told her we can't be the way she wanted to if she's someone's girlfriend.

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2 Name: pwned : 2011-03-29 06:33 ID:V5haK5M1

For the record, texting someone "I think I owe you an apology" doesn't make up for this shit.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-03-29 15:01 ID:tFs7Gq2P

I'm a 23 year old kissless virgin and even I know that’s how the game works. As soon as she is available that is the time to make a move. Heck some conventions also states you should have made a move even when she was with her boyfriend, hell for all you know that might have been what this new guy did, I don’t know. Though I commend you on your noble efforts to keep your hands clean that doesn’t always work to your favor you should have expected that much.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-03-30 00:39 ID:PG2ReTVy

Don't turn into a bitter asshole over this. Nothing kills a girl-boner like a bitter asshole.

5 Name: pwned : 2011-03-30 02:20 ID:u78C/LEY

She texted me today to say that she did truly care for me but "it [her feelings, presumably] went nowhere."

Every time I open my heart it's rejected. I must have some glaring personality flaw (flaws?) that all the women I know have spotted but I fail to see.

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6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-03-30 21:00 ID:lLqVyPlg

There were red flags already showing at the beginning, where she seemed willing to do stuff with you while still keeping things going with her long distance boyfriend.

7 Name: pwned : 2011-03-30 23:55 ID:Vbsy9GTT

Yeah. I suppose I should have seen that, but she and I just got along so damn well. I don't really have a best friend and she was as close as I got in like 6 months or a year.

I'm feeling a bit better now.

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8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-03-31 07:19 ID:R5DnTuOf

I think I understand how you feel, something very similar happened to me as well. I was all but dating a girl for around a month; flirting, cuddling, and kissing. At the same time, she was "going out" with a guy she was getting really annoyed with, so she didn't feel bad about flirting with me. I didn't take the valiant route and confront her about it, instead I listened to her complain about her boyfriend and bash him as well, in hopes of making her simply dump him so she could be mine.

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9 Name: pwned : 2011-03-31 16:34 ID:Vbsy9GTT

Yeah. I would have liked for my feelings to slowly fade. This abrupt cessation has caused me a lot of emotional pain.

At this point I don't really want to date her though. Between thrashing my heart and being so capricious with relationships, I can't trust her again.

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10 Name: pwned : 2011-03-31 19:22 ID:A7zjiybk

I saw a counselor at the university today. I had set up this appointment before all of this romantic stuff happened. I always feel generally unhappy and dissatisfied with life. I think part of why I fell so hard from this situation was because I had placed so much hope for a less dull future in this girl.

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11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-03-31 23:32 ID:rru66Ldg

get rich first and those bitches will be a magnet that you can't get rid of

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-04-03 15:54 ID:9DT/RDa+

Look at the bright side. After all these relationships, you're still a virgin, rather than a jailed rapist.

Life's good, man!

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-07-16 21:20 ID:hsCWVrE4

STDs don't cost money, and masturbation is free. Sex is Sex; and should never cost a dime. Every city has a (male/or/female)prostitue, if you wanna buy some--b-o-d-y ...for a minute. Save your money for a weekend-vaction to Hawaii & get laid over there. Home-town relationships can happen if the other person is a mature & understanding Human Being 1st, and a (non-game playing, non-manipulative, non-needy) relationship-partner 2nd. Be self-sufficient. Find a relationship partner that is self-sufficient. Cherish the addictive words: "i WANT you" and "i am Thankful for you". ~.~ Runaway-from (and Leave) the codependent words: "i NEED you" and "without you my life sucks" - because those lies create suffering & a superficial reality.